Talking dirty is a super sexy way to get things started, and spice things up in the bedroom. If you've never done it before, then the idea can be a little bit scary: What do you say? What if you offend her? Will she be into it? Most women are, in fact, very much into dirty talk - who isn't? - so don't be afraid to give it a show on your next hookup date! It's not as difficult or daunting as you're thinking, especially once you're in the mood. We're going to bread it down for you, though, and tell you exactly how to talk dirty and excite your partner.

In order to learn how to talk dirty to your partner, start off slow and ease into the really dirty stuff; save the gold for when you're actually getting down and dirty. Start with asking her stuff like what she wants, what she likes, then tell her what you want and what you like - once you're unable to think, get her to do all the talking! Don't forget to get specific, though, because hearing exactly what her partner wants to do her is some women's kryptonite!

Depending on your specific dirty-talking situation, you might have to change things up a little bit, but the overall "rules" here still apply whether she's in your bed, on your phone, or you're sexting with her long-distance, doing these things work with in almost any situation!

If you're looking to excite your girl and get her turned on with your dirty talk, when start off slow; treat it like kind of a tease. Hint at what you're thinking. There's a reason that asking a girl what she's wearing is a cliche - it's a sure-fire way to get the conversation going in a sex direction! You can guide her in strip-tease if you're on the phone, telling her what to take off and when. Thanks to smartphones, you can also get her to send you pics, or video chat the sexy experience! To start things off, don't just jump into what you want. There's a bit of an art to doing this right, but it's easy to learn once you know how to do it! We have a few suggestions, and we can guarantee that this the best possible way to start talking dirty and exciting your partner. Remember, you don't' want to be creepy, you want to be sexy, and this is how you do it.

Like we said, don't just jump right into the nitty gritty of dirty talk and start spouting off your deepest, dirtiest desires, because it might just end up backfiring. You have to test the waters a little bit before diving in, so start off tame, and get dirtier as you go. Gauge her responses to what you're saying. If she seems very clearly into it and wanting more, then go ahead and up the ante right away. But if you're unsure, slowly get dirtier until you're giving her you're all - by that point it'll be clear whether she likes it or not.

Some things you want to talk about that are on the tamer side of dirty talk are things like the sexy parts of her body, what you find sexy about her, asking her seemingly innocent sex questions, and so on. Once you're in the situation and you're feelin' it, the right things will come to mind, so don't worry about it too much.

You don't need to spend too much on easing into dirty talking, because that takes up valuable dirty talking time! Just a few minutes to get the mood going and get your partner excited is all you need. Unless you're participating in a dirty talk fetish session of some kind, you're going to want to have sex at some point, and the longer you spend easing into the good stuff, the longer it takes until you get to have sex.

Dirty talk isn't just something to use as foreplay, although it's an extremely fast and easy way to excite your partner and get them in the mood. The best dirty talking comes when you're going at it, and saying the first naughty thing that comes to mind. One of the best things abut dirty talking sex is that you don't have to think about what you're saying, the words just come, and it makes the sex so much more exciting!

There's nothing sexier than hearing your partner say exactly what they want, and doing it in detail! The best dirty talk paints a naughty picture, so don't hold back once you really get going. At some point, the dirty talk is going to make almost no sense, but that's not the point. This doesn't happen until you're nearing the finish-line and can't think straight, but when you're aiming to excite your partner, try to get her to picture what you're saying.

Don't be afraid to talk about her pussy or her tits, and what you love about them. Once she's naked in your bed and excited, you're officially allowed to get detailed and dirtier! Get her begging you for more, and live out your own fantasy by teasing her with your words. If you can hold off until she can't it anymore and has to have you, you're in for some of the best sex of your life!

Telling a woman exactly what you're going to do to her is one of the sexiest things they can hear when they're naked and waiting in your bed, so go into as much detail as you want to here. There's no need to hold back, just tell her what comes to mind and don't worry about putting her off. She's already there and turned on, so chances are she's going to be into whatever it is you're saying. The hard part it over at this stage - you've gotten here turned on, so now you just need to do what comes naturally, and let her know what you're thinking.

You don't have to be literal here and follow up with what you say either, you can say general dirty talk descriptions without actually following through. The point of dirty talk is the sexiness of the words and the effect they have, not whether it's true or not.

Another method or topic of dirty talk can be you telling her what you like; what you like to see, what you like do to, etc. You don't have to plan ahead for this, either, just start saying "I like it when..." and see what comes out! You could like it when she touches you a certain way, does a certain thing, looks a certain way - the possibilities are endless here. Any number of naughty things you can think of apply here, just say what comes to mind.

You can be truthful about what you like, especially if you two are into the same kinky stuff, or you can say what you think she wants to hear, but what matters is that the topic is always dirty and sexy. Again, it doesn't matter if you're just saying things for the sake of dirty talking, the point is that is that's hot, and gets you both, but especially your partner excited!

Tell her all the things that you think are sexy about her and body, emphasizing your point by giving those areas some extra attention, or grabbing them while you're dirty talking to her. Women love hearing what you think is sexy about them, so get specific here when you're describing the parts of her body that you think are sexy, and why. Remember though, this is dirty talking, so you're not trying to write poetry here. Just mention the body part, use a descriptor word for it, and mention something sexual you want to do to it - that's about it!

Getting specific about her body doesn't have to take over your dirty talking, it's just a suggestion if you're worrying about knowing what to say to her. Don't overthink, because it'll end up backfiring on what you're hoping to happen. Just relax, enjoy, and let the words about her sexy body come to you. You already find these things attractive, you're just letting her know now.

A great way to enhance the dirty talk experience and get your partner even more excited it to get her involved and talking back. If you can't think of how you might do that, don't worry, we'll tell you how to talk dirty and excite your partner by getting them talking back to you. It's not hard, though it might seem intimidating, but think of it as a sexy experience that really has no pressure riding on it. You're just making things hotter, that's all!

There are a few different ways to get your partner talking back, and talking dirty with you. Depending on your personal preference and what you think your partner would respond best to, you can pick and choose any of these options - or combine them for an ever sexier dirty talk! These are a few possible ways to get your partner in on the dirty talking action.

Ask your partner, in a sexy way, of course, what she wants. You can have her describe it to you or you can ask her specifics, but either way, she has to answer you to keep the dirty talk going. If she's into it, she's going to respond enthusiastically and give you more to go on, but if she's not...well, you'll know long before you get to this point.

Use the cliched lines, who cares? They're hot, they work, and they give you something sexy to say, so ask her if she wants your dick, how she wants it, and so on. You'll probably both be so turned on by this point that you won't be thinking 100% straight, so it doesn't matter too much exactly what you're saying, as long as she can get the gist of what you're asking her, so she can reply and keep things going.

If you're totally out of dirty things to say, can't think of anything else, or can't think at all because of what's happening, then go dominant on her and tell her to talk dirty to you. Switch the roles - have her ask you the dirty questions and you answer! It's an exciting change-up for both of you, because how she's in control of the dirty convo, and you're at the mercy of what she says.

It doesn't matter when you do this change-up - it can be during foreplay, just before you have sex, while you're having sex - the point is that you're talking dirty and it's hot for both of you. If you're clearly not able to think of things to say because you're enjoying yourself too much while you're banging her, she'll probably take the reigns anyway if she's just as into the dirty talking action.

This can be somewhat tricky, but for the most part, any kind of swearing is okay during dirty talk. Where it gets a bit touch-and-go is with the name-calling - you don't want to call a girl that you just met a whore in bed, so you really need to gauge the situation and the girl before you go ahead with that one. Obviously, if you're with your partner, then anything goes, and you likely already know where to draw the line, so go nuts with it!

When you're dirty talking, it's generally understood that you don't mean the things you're saying in relation to name-calling, and most people know this. You obviously don't think your partner is actually a dirty whore, but it can be sexy as hell to call her that in the bedroom!

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