Do you want to get down and dirty with your lady, but you're lacking the energy to give it your all? Don't worry, that's where we come in! We're here to tell you all about how to around a woman with little effort, while getting maximum gain for yourself. Let's face it, sometimes you just aren't in the mood to be the most generous lover, but you still want to get your girl going to you can have sex. A long day at work, feeling tired, whatever the reason, you can't give 100% each and every time. We get it! There are ways to get yours and give her hers without having to do too much.

You're about to realize that it's incredibly easy to do so very little, but still make it look like you're doing a lot, and reap the rewards for it!

To arouse a woman with little effort, you need to start small, with things like kissing and massage, talk dirty to her, and most of all, make it look like you're doing more than you by watching porn together, or getting her to do things to herself! We'll go into more detail later on.

When you're looking to put in minimal effort, but make it look like you're doing the opposite, you need to start small. A bunch of small actions will add to up like one big one, so she won't even realize that basically skipped foreplay entirely, and got right down to the final act. That doesn't mean you should touch her at all - we're going to get into that - but you don't have to go down on her or do too much to get her going, in order to get her going, you follow?

Following these few steps will get her aroused and ready to have sex as soon as you say go! Remember, little effort doesn't mean zero effort - you have to be involved somehow. She's going to notice if you don't pay attention to her and just get in it. Women don't work like that. Whether you want to know how to arouse a date hookup or a partner, these small actions are going to work. You really can arouse a woman without doing all that much!

You don't need to go crazy here and give her a full-on, full body massage, but rub her down a little bit. Get her nice and relaxed, and pay special attention to her ass and hips. Massaging these sexy areas are guaranteed to get her juices flowing, and that's just the first step! Just lay down beside her, and rub wherever you can access, but don't touch her pussy at all. This is important, and we'll get to why later. For now, focus on the more muscle-y areas - and don't be afraid to get a spanking or two in there!

The more you touch a woman in her non-erogenous zones, oddly enough, they start to work as exactly that. You can turn any small massage into a sensual massage, all it takes it you two being naked, and you sprinkling in a few spankings every now and then. You're not going to have to do this for long - she'll be wanting more faster than you'd expect, and you'll barely have used both hands to get that reaction! That's right, you can accomplish this step with a single hand, saving your other hand for the step tip on furthering her arousal.

Women liked to be touched. Touching is sexy, and after you've just rubbed her down a bit and given her some spankings, her nerve endings are going to be tingling big time. This is why all it takes now is for you to gently rub your hands over her body. Caress all over her body, again, avoiding exactly where she wants you to go, and she'll go crazy. This requires even less effort than the pseudo-massage you just gave her, so it's a good chance to save up the minuscule amount of effort you've had to use so far.

Start at the bottom of her legs and caress upward, moving over to her thighs, hips, and up her waist. Think of it as second base - you have to feel up your girl to get her going, it's not just fun-times for you! Keep moving up until you're cupping her face in your hands, and move in for a deep kiss. This will look to her like a super intimate, slow love-making session about to happen, but in reality, you're just turning her on while doing very little.

Kissing always turns a woman on, so you can't go wrong here! It could be a hookup date, a one night stand, or your girlfriend, but as long as you're making out, you're on the right track. There are millions of tiny little nerve endings in our lips, and kissing is the best way to stimulate those. You aren't using any extra effort at all, because you two would be kissing anyway, you're just upping the ante and using this as a method of arousal.

Nature is in your favor here, as we said, because the lips are natural erogenous zones. Make sure you don't just dive right in for the tongue, take a few minutes for some lip action, or it's all for nothing. By all means, use your tongue as much as you want to during the deed, but when you're trying to effortlessly get her aroused, kissing her on the lips is really all you need. You also get bonus points here, because men do tend to go right in the a messy make-out, so by starting gently, you'll arouse her even more!

Using as little effort as possible to get your girl aroused requires the illusion of putting in more effort then you actually are. This is an art-form of sorts, but luckily, it's not hard to master. There are a few specific things that you can do to achieve this. The key here, more than anything else, is encouraging her to actually turn herself on. Make her do all the work, but get involved in a way that makes it seem like you were really in on the action, when you were mostly on the sidelines.

There's nothing wrong with doing this, it really is a form of foreplay, and is a fetish for a lot of people. It just also happens to be a very effective way of arousing your partner with little effort on your part, so why not use that to your advantage? It's a two-for: you aren't using too much effort before the "big game", and you're spicing up your sex life. It's a win-win for everyone! Your girl will get off, you won't be too tired, and everybody's happy with everything. Here's how to make it seem like you were more involved than you were.

Teasing your partner is the easiest way to arouse her and make it seem like you did more than you really did. Teasing is super sexy, period. It's just a huge added advantage that it doesn't require much of you to do it. There are a bunch of ways you could tease your partner, touching her being the one that requires the most effort on your part. We already went over how to tease her with your touch, but there are most ways than that to get her going.

If you're feeling particularly excited, you can have her watch you touch yourself, without letting her to the same. Putting on this small show will definitely get her wanting more, and you don't have to do anything that you wouldn't do anyway. You can use you mouth, as well, if you want to, licking her non-sexual areas until she's begging for more. You and your partner may also have specific fetishes that you might withhold from her to get her aroused, which is the easiest possible way to do that. Not giving her what she wants, when she wants is a guaranteed way to turn her on.

You don't have to lift a finger to do this one. Talking dirty to your girl is the one thing that requires absolutely zero effort whatsoever- you barely even have to think in order to do it. Just say what dirty thoughts are on your mind! Tell her what you want to do to her, what you want to see her do to herself (more on that in a minute), and so on. The possibilities of what to say to her here are pretty much endless, it really all depends on what gets you two off.

Tell her what you like about her physically, what you like when she does to you, what you want to see from - again, you can literally talk about anything, and it becomes sexy when you're both naked in bed.

Let her choose the video, and watch porn together. She'll get aroused, you'll get aroused, and no one had to do a thing to make it happen! Just enjoy what's happening on the screen, and get turned on. The key to making sure that your partner gets aroused here is to give her the reigns on videos choices. You're getting to watch porn with your girl either way, so you can't lose, she just might not be into the same hardcore stuff that you are. Let her pick, and you're making sure that she'll get turned on. You don't have to spend money on this either, as you probably already know. There are hundreds of free streaming porn sites that you can check out together, which is just one more way to get aroused with doing anything but looking!

Once again, you don't have to move at all to use this method of teasing to arouse your partner. If you aren't already aware, there is such a thing as 'jerk-off instruction' porn, and you can use this to your benefit! If you're wondering how to arouse your partner with little effort just make her do it herself - with your guidance, of course. This once again has the added advantage of being a sexy sort of bedroom play or tease, while requiring nothing but words from you. It can't get much easier than this!

There's the obvious added bonus of creating your very own, in-home porn show while you're doing this. You literally get to play out a fantasy of thousands of men, and you get to make your girl think that this is all that's happening. It's a sneaky, sexy way to get on her on her way to getting off, while you do very little.

Time for the moment you've been waiting (and saving your energy) for! Once she's good and ready, have at it! Get her into the position you want her in, and go! Stick to your regular moves, or take this as a chance to add some more spice and try something new! You've saved your energy and effort for this, so use it!

If you're looking to use even less effort, have your partner get on top. It's not a bad thing, it just means that they're in control (which is sexy as hell), and you don't have to do very much for both of you to get off! There are tons of successful ways of having effort-free sex, but these are just a few of the best ones.

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