If you want to get laid, you're going to need to have some sex appeal, but unfortunately, this isn't something that comes naturally to a lot of men. Don't fret if you're one of these men - we're here to help! Just because attracting women may not come to you like a second nature, doesn't mean things have to stay that way. With just a few simple steps, you can up your sex appeal ten-fold, and get practically any woman you want with your swagger.

In order to increase your sex appeal, it means you need to dress well, be clean-cut and smell great, have a confident swagger, and be able to talk to a woman without being braggy or overconfident. Don't forget about manscaping and shaving!

By the time you've finish this article, you'll know exactly what it takes, and exactly how to increase your sex appeal. A lot of what you'll need to do is common sense, but we'll simplify even more to make sure it sticks. Get ready, because you're about to get laid pretty much any time you want, with almost any woman you want!

This should be a given, but just in case you need a friendly reminder, you need to have good hygiene if you're looking to up your sex appeal. A stanky, hairy dude is not what any woman is looking for, and you really should know that at this point in your life. Still, it's important enough that we're going to go through, step by step, what you need to do to ensure you have good hygiene before you go out looking to score a hookup date. Having good hygiene as a man is about more then simply bathing, as crucial as that step is, you need to do more than that. Deodorant, for instance, is a logical next step once you're out of the shower, yet a surprising number of men forget to do this in their haste to get ready. Don't forget to do it before you're heading out for a date!

Step numero uno - bathing. You're going to want to wash your hair and scrub down your bod before you go out looking to score. But even if you aren't going out with that specific goal in mind, having general sex appeal requires you to be regularly bathed and smelling nice. You want to attract women to you, and one super simple way to start doing that is to make sure your shower and bathing habits are up to par.

You don't have to wash your hair every day either - in fact, it's probably better for your scalp and hair if you don't - but always give your body a good wash daily. You're sweating all day long, you don't want to leave that on your body and walk around the next day with it sticking on you. Old sweat does not equal good sex appeal. Spritz on some cologne too, to make sure you smell extra nice, but don't use body spray - women tend to associate these products with juvenile guys, and you want her to see you as an attractive, sexy man!

This one can be a little bit tricky, because you have to tailor this look toward the types of ladies you're looking to attract. To some, the scruffy, unkempt bearded look is a turn-on, but to others, the opposite is the case. If you're the type who usually has a scruffy look going on, just make sure you maintain it as such. It's easy to let the scruff get out of hand, and there's a very fine line between sexy scruffy, and homeless scruffy.

If you're usually clean-shaven, or have nicely kept facial hair, be sure to keep it that way when you're leaving the house. You never know who you might run into that could become a potential hookup, so don't risk the lessened sex appeal by skipping the once-over before going out. There are women everywhere you go, so always look attractive.

Shaving doesn't just mean paying attention to the hair on your face. You have hair all over your body that you should be keeping track of, but you don't have to shave off everything. Just shave off the unsightly or excess areas, and trim the rest. There's no need to mess with your leg hair, is what we're trying to say, but if you have a particularly hairy back, for instance, you probably want to get rid of that; if you need to know how to increase you sex appeal and fast, this is one thing to try. This is the kind of hair where mean when we say 'unsightly'.

Pubic hair really only needs to be tended to before you're going on an actual date. There's no way for any woman on the street to know the state of your pubes, so don't worry about that on a day to day basis. However, if you are planning on trying to hook up with a woman, definitely do not neglect to manscape your balls, etcetera.

Sex appeal is largely about how you look, so don't neglect your appearance in any way if you're trying to increase your sex appeal. It's been shown that women decide if they're going to have sex with a man in the first 30 seconds of meeting him. Let's face it, women are not basing their decision on whether or not he can hold a quick conversation. Sure, she might decide to have sex with you if you can make her laugh, but you can make this a guarantee by simply looking good.

You probably won't have to do too much more than you already do when you're getting yourself prepped to go out, but just in case, we're going to go into detail and let you know for sure you're doing everything right.

Ladies are attracted to a man who knows how to dress, so this is one sure-fire way to increase your sex appeal in one easy step. Obviously, you need to get your hygienic necessities out of the way, but once you're showered, shaved, and smelling good, you need to have something to wear. If you're going to wear jeans, make sure they fit well, don't fall halfway down your ass, and do not have any holes or tears. Mature (in life and behavior, not necessarily age) attractive men do not wear ripped jeans, so it's key to wear a nice pair if you're going the denim route.

If you're going on a date somewhere nice, a pair of dress pants is a good idea. You don't have to wear a full suit, but nice slacks and a dress shirt are always a safe bet.

Your hair is an extension of your appearance, and a pretty prominent one, so make sure to include styling your hair as part of your routine. It could something as simple as combing it, but don't just wake up, run your hands through, and go. Take a few minutes to make it seem like you're put-together, and that you put an effort into your appearance - which is true! If doesn't require a ton of time, or even a lot of effort, to get your hair looking good, and it's worth making time to do it.

Use your discretion on whether or not you should add product. Never go overboard if you do opt to use any, though, because if the night goes right, she'll be getting her hands into your hair at some point, and you want that to be a pleasant experience for both of you!

This refers to your overall self-presentation. It's very a much a part of your overall appearance, and worth mentioning before we get into confidence in more detail. How you present yourself to a woman, and to the world in general, when you're in public, gives a fast first impression, so you want to make sure it's going to be a good one.

The best possible way to stay control of yourself and keep wits about you is to stay mostly sober while you're out with a woman. It's never attractive to get too drunk on a date, and it's a guaranteed to way to make you look less attractive in her eyes - the exact opposite of what you want. Don't be afraid to have a few drinks, but slow it down when you feel it starting to get to you.

A confident man is always an attractive man, so if you really want to know how to increase your sex appeal, you also need to increase your confidence. Fake it 'til you make it if you're not naturally this kind of guy; walk tall and try to seem outwardly self-assured. There are ways of doing this wrong, however, and there are also ways of exuding confidence in more subtle ways. We're going to fill you in on exactly what to avoid doing, and what to do to stealthily show her that you're a confident man.

If you can manage this final step in our 'guide' on how to increase your sex appeal, you'll never have a problem getting a woman in your bed again. It's much more common-sense based than you might expect, but the good news is that means it'll be easy!

Overconfidence is most definitely a thing, and it's the most common mistake that men make when they're trying to show off their confidence. It's easy to overdo it and come off as arrogant or condescending, and this is the absolute worst thing you want any woman to think that you are. These are not traits that attractive men with sex appeal have. It's easy enough to avoid doing this though: don't talk down to her, correct her, or question her intelligence - these are just a few suggestions.

It's also a good idea to avoid bragging about yourself or your accomplishments. By all means, exchange stories about each of your individual points of pride, but make sure it is an exchange, not just you listing the great things that you've done for people. Basically, have a normal conversation with her, and you're going in the right direction.

While you're talking to a woman, ask her questions about herself. Show an interest in her and her life so that you're not just talking about yourself all night (see above). It's a huge turn-off to be forced to listen to someone talk at you about themselves, so don't be that guy. Be the inquisitive guy who genuinely wants to find out more about her (or at least, seem like it), and your sex appeal will go up big time!

You don't have to pry or ask overly personal questions, either, just stick to the basics. Ask her the standard background questions (if you don't already know them), and then maybe ask her if she has interest in any specific things that you're interested in. Give her a chance to talk about her likes and hobbies, and so forth.

More than anything else on this list that we've mentioned, treating people like a gentleman is the best, most effective way of increasing your sex appeal with women. Women love a man who treat them well, but they also like to see men treat other people well too. How you talk to waitstaff, for example, while you two are on a date will be something she'll take notice of, and if you treat them with respect, you're instantly an attractive guy to her.

Never underestimate the power of acting like a decent guy - it's historically the most successful way of increasing your sex appeal with women in a huge way. There's reason it's still in style, and that's because it works!

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