Get a shower mat so you can get traction, experiment with positions (although standing is advised,) and try to avoid getting water inside you if you want to have mind blowing shower sex. Read on for more details!

Welcome to another easysex.com sex advice guide! Before you carry on reading this fantastic guide, why don't you bookmark this page now so that you can come again and again for more great tips, hints and words of advice on red hot shower sex. Keep reading to discover how to have great shower sex with tips and how-to steps to get you both in the mood. If you follow the advice we give you in this little guide, you will soon be having great shower sex! From how to have sex standing up, plus hints on how to avoid problems when mixing condoms with water, to how to have amazing anal sex in the shower, and the best ways to prepare for shower sex, our guide covers everything you will ever need to know about how to have sex in the shower.

OK, you might laugh, but shower mats are not just for the elderly. Showers, in case you have never had one, or if you are one of those rare people who wear flip flops while you wash, are slippery places at the best of times. Unless you want to risk concussion or a bashed knee, or worse, go out and get a non slip shower mat if you don't already have one. You will thank us in the long run. A shower mat will stop you losing your footing and looking like a real doofus, plus -- traction. Right? You'll be able to really go at it if you can get a firm footing, trust us. In fact, a lot of guys actually refuse to have sex in the shower unless they can get a really firm footing -- but do not be put off by this, it simply shows you that he has some experience with this kind of thing, and that is definitey a good thing.

Why? Because hot water can cause low blood pressure, and low blood pressure can mean... well, you can work it out. Some guys seem to be well equipped for shower shenanigans, but for others, hot water and standing up can have a rather wilting effect. Try lowering the temperature of the water for a longer lasting experience. A lot of guys may not tell you up front that they do not like to have sex in the shower, and that is mainly due to the fairly understandable reason that they get small dicks when the water gets too hot and their blood pressure falls. They might even think that this is their fault. While it is not on you to reassure them about their prowess, now that you know that this is the reason, why not tell the poor guy and put him out of his misery? After all, if there was a part of your body that imply did not work in some situations, it might make you feel a little bad too!

Well -- no. They don't. You can also push water inside the woman's vagina, which is a big no-no, so if you DO have sex in the shower, make sure you penetrate outside of the flow of water -- hard to do, admittedly, but some folk really love shower sex, so it can be worth while if you get it right. One of the main factor that makes water and condoms such a bad mix is that the water can wash away the lube that condoms come pre covered in. It also washes away the spermicide that they are treated with, which makes them a little less effective than they really should be. Is that all? No, it doesn't end there. The water can also cause the latex to erode, since it contains chlorine, which does not mix very well with natural latex. Want a hole in your condom? No, we thought not! There is also a chance that the water can get inside the condom, which will then create a channel for his -- and your -- juices to flow through, making the whole thing a little tricky to navigate. However, if you keep out of the direct flow of water, steamy shower sex can be amazing and safe for both of you!

Standing up is pretty much the best position for shower sex, though if you have a shower seat it can increase the positions available to you. You can do it doggy style standing up, or the woman can straddle the man facing him, though this can be a little tricky. Doggy style or face to face, the fact is you are almost 100% for a fact going to be having sex standing up. There is another position which involves both of you sitting or squatting, and that works too. Another great way to have sex in the shower is by oral sex. You can straddle your man and have him lick you while he kneels below you, and a lot of women find that this is a great way to get a really amazing orgasm. Another way is if you give him a blowjob in the shower. This is a great way to get him off, especially if he is having issues keeping a hard on in the blood pressure lowering heat. a word on that -- try having a cold shower for interesting effects, or even better, a lukewarm one!

To be 100% honest, it doesn't really matter how you have sex in the shower, so long as you are both having a good time and getting something out of it. If it is not working for one or either of you then chances are you are doing it wrong -- or you might not be compatible in some way! No need to get worked up over it though -- it could simply be that one or either of you might not really like shower sex. The fact is that it is usually women who like shower sex more than men -- don't be worried about this if you are a guy, it might just be that you should allow your partner to go off into the shower with a friend, such as a nice long dildo.

When it comes to anal sex in the shower, water-resistant lubrication is your friend. However, bear in mind that products such as Vaseline do not work with condoms -- the petroleum jelly actually eats away at the latex in the condoms, so don't try that. However, there are plenty of water-resistant lubes on the market that do work well with condoms, so make sure you shop around. OK, it is time to move past the unsexy talk of condoms and get down to it. Got your lube ready? Good! To have amazing anal sex in the shower, you have to present your rectum to be penetrated. Arch your back slightly so that your rump is sticking out. This will help you to open up your sphincter, which should happen by itself. Next, allow your partner to slip a finger or two inside your anus. When your anus is nice and dilated, let him slide his erect penis deep inside you. Let him thrust until he comes -- the perfect anal shower sex!

There is something very sexy about being spontaneous, but one of the best ways to be spontaneous is to be prepared first. Sounds like a bit of a contradiction, right? Well, one of the best ways to make sure that you are prepared for sex in the shower is to make sure you have cleaning products to clean the shower afterwards. This is even more important if you do not own the building -- for instance, it's your parents' place, or you live in a shared house... or it's where you work. Either way, if it's not your place, or even if it is, it's nice to clean up after yourself. I mean, imagine getting out of the pool one day, going into the shower, and stepping straight in someone's spooge. Would you like that? Ok, you weren't supposed to say yes...

1. The car. You might be surprised, but having sex in the car is 47% of Americans best places to have sex. One of the great things about haing sex in the car is that you can park it wherever you like -- is that a double entendre? Probably...

2. Europeans also love to have sex in the car, though their absolute favorite place is the train, at 57%. Mind you, the Europeans are a horny bunch, so that might be saying very much. The next best place on their list was...

3. ... In the woods. If you are lucky enough to live by the woods, why not have yourself a Teddy Bears' Picnic of wine, snacks, and sex? Just be sure you are in a safe little outdoors place that is really very nice and secluded -- you might not want to get discovered getting down and dirty out in public! Oh, and watch out for ticks... there is something decidedly unsexy about Lyme Disease, folks!

4. In a bed. Yes, it may be a little old fashioned, but the bed is most people's top place for a bit of action -- it also has the added bonus of being a great place to fall asleep post orgasm as well.

5. In an alley. Yeah, we don't get this either, but apparently a lot of folk like to do it in the alley. That's not a euphemism, by the way.

6. On an airplane. OK, this will probably get you arrested, so we don't recommend it, but the word is that a lot of folk a members of the Mile High Club.

7. In the kitchen. Some people like to have sex on a kitchen counter, or on the kitchen table. This kind of makes sense, since there are so many fun things to play with in the kitchen, from yoghurt to basting brushes.

8. In the garden. If you are lucky enough to have a garden then you may find that it is the perfect place for sex. It has a bit of everything -- the privacy of a home with the outdoorsy feel of, well, the outdoors.

9. At a party. It's not unusual to have sex at a party -- and we don't just mean sex parties, specifically. House parties offer the three things most folk associate with hedonistic sexuality -- drink, people, and beds. Put all three together in one place, and sex is most certainly going to happen at some point.

10. At work. Having sex at a place of work is a big favorite among a lot of people. A sexual liaison at the office is very common and the reason for this is pretty obvious -- propinquitous relationships just work.

We have come to the end of our sex advice article on shower sex -- we hope you got well and truly wet and wild with your partner -- or partners! If you are still in the mood, why not take a bit of time to go and have a look at our other great sex advice guides on easysex.com!

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