Giving great oral sex means being enthusiastic, being patient, and above all really wanting to please your partner while you use your mouth to stimulate his or her genitals. Women love it if you take your time and go gently, working slowly inwards as you build towards an orgasm, while for a guy you can't go wrong if you swallow. Read on for more specific details.

The sex advice experts are back, with yet another easysex.com sex advice guide. Now, keep reading to discover how to give truly mind blowing oral sex. Packed with tips -- and not just the tip! -- our guide to giving amazing oral sex to your partner will make sure that they have the best time imaginable!

You might think that giving great oral sex is all about technique -- and, to be sure, there are definitely some tricks you can learn that work better than others -- but in actual fact it is surprisingly simple to give great head, and here's why: you have to show that you care. Can it really be that simple? Well, for sure you can improve your skills -- and let us be frank here, oral sex is indeed a skill -- but if you have no prior experience, you can still give amazing oral sex simply by putting in some effort. The best way to give great oral sex is to be enthusiastic about doing it. Show him or her that you really mean it! Don't treat your partner's genitals as though they're a lollipop covered in dirt -- really show that you are into it, and that you are enjoying it. The best way to do this is to make sure that you really are enjoying giving great oral sex. Make sure that your parter has washed thoroughly, and then really get into it.

Do you absolutely have to swallow a guy's cum? No. Will it make oral sex better for him if you do? Yes, absolutely. The usual way you will see people dealing with their partner coming in their mouth in movies is that the woman or man allows the guy to come in their mouth and then kind of drools it out. The other is that the guy comes onto their partner's face.

But in real life, the best way to be sure that you give really amazing oral sex for a guy is to swallow every drop of what he gives you, as soon as he shoots his load. You can probably do this in one gulp, and it really will show your partner how much you value him. It's also extremely hot!

When it comes to cunnilingus, less is more. The clitoris is a very sensitive little bundle of nerves, so you need to be a little gentle with it. Let your sex partner guide you and you will find that your oral sex will improve tenfold. The same goes when you are giving head to a guy -- don't just suck vigorously, jerking your head up and down. Instead, really take your time. Tease him with your tongue, look into his eyes. Murmuring encouragement and sexy words will improve his experience, too, so do not be afraid to talk or to make noises while you give him head.

When it comes to cunnilingus and fellatio the person who knows best what oral sex feels like is your partner. If you really want to give truly amazing oral sex, let your partner guide you. They can either tell you how to do it, or let them physically guide you by placing their hands on your head while you stimulate them with your mouth. You can also ask your partner to tell you what really works for them. Have them describe oral sex that they have enjoyed in the past, and to tell you what worked, what did not work, and what they have always wanted to try. Perhaps he has never had anyone swallow their come for them. Perhaps she has never had anyone really take their time with her. Whatever your partner really loves, try to explore it with them, be open minded, and above all, be generous and patient.

One of the best ways to learn how to be great at giving amazing oral sex is to be open to being adventurous. This means going outside of your comfort zone. Try new things that you have never tried before. If you are a guy going down on a woman, let your partner guide you, and be willing to take your time with her. Spend time licking around her vagina first, paying attention to what makes her moan and shudder. The labia major are a source of intense pleasure if treated respectfully, so start there rather than going straight for the clitoris. Work towards the labia minor after this, again taking your time to please your partner. She will let you know when it is time to move deeper and to start licking her clitoris with gentle investigative tongue motions. If you are going down on a guy, you will almost always find that going straight for the helmet is welcome, but if you want to really prolong his orgasm, try licking the shaft of his penis, and do not neglect his balls. A man's testicles are surprisingly sensitive, so take some time to lick, nibble, and even suck them. Move towards the tip of his penis slowly, paying attention to his genitals as a whole. If you are a woman giving a gut head, try to think of the head of his cock as an enlarged clitoris, because that is essentially what it is. While going straight for the most sensitive part -- the head -- may seem like the best approach, think of stimulating him the way you like to be pleasured -- slowly, working towards the clitoris (or in this case, the head of his penis.)

The sexiest thing about oral sex is not the technique, it is the amount of time you spend on it couples with the joy you appear to be getting from it yourself. If you seem to really love giving oral sex, it is going to be so much more enjoyable for the receiver than if you are ambivalent, or worse, downright disgusted -- nothing is more of a turn off than having someone sneer at or complain about your genitals! So take your time and really let your partner see and feel how into it you are. The results might surprise you!

1. All you have to do is lie there. Yes, that's right, when you are on the receiving end of mind blowing oral sex, all you have to do is groan and enjoy it. The best thing about this is knowing that you have a partner who really values your pleasure, and if you have recently given them oral sex yourself, it is all the better!

2. You are helping your partner to be an even better lover. Yes, you really can assure your partner that by giving you amazing oral sex you are actually doing THEM a favor! Of course, they may need some convincing on this front, but if they are committed to giving you intense pleasure, then you can definitely feel as though you are helping them out in this way!

3. You are learning how it feels to be on the receiving end of great oral sex. This is actually quite important, because when you are the one getting the oral sex you are also learning how to give your partner the same. Think about what works, and remember it for when it is your turn to give them pleasure the next time you give oral sex.

4. You can reciprocate at the same time using the 69 position. This is maybe one of the most famous of all the sex positions that are known to man and woman, and there is a good reason for that state of affairs -- the simple fact is that the 69 position really does work when it is done right. Focus on your partner for a great time!

5. You will start to bond even more with your partner. There are few things more intimate than giving and receiving oral sex with someone. If your partner really takes the time to pleasure you with their mouth, and gives you amazing orgasms, then you will start to appreciate them on a whole other level. The same goes if you do it for them, as well.

1. Don't give up too easily. If it seems as though your partner is not really enjoying what you are doing, try mixing it up a little. Go slower or faster, harder or softer. You can ask for some feedback, though this can be a bit of a mood killer. Try changing what you are doing for better results and see whether this makes any difference at all.

2. Do not criticize your partner while giving them oral sex. This is a big no-no. If you are not enjoying giving them oral sex then you can always just stop. If you feel like your partner could be a little, ahem, cleaner downstairs, then say so before you start, but if they can't be faulted and there is no other issue except that you are not feeling it, then it is best to just stop.

3. Don't keep going if you feel uncomfortable. You should always remember that this is your body, and you can do what you like with it, within reason, and if you don't feel like giving head then it is perfectly within your right to stop at any time. Never feel pressured to carry on if you do not want to. Life is short -- enjoy it the way YOU want to.

4. Don't tease too much. There is a level of teasing that makes sex really very pleasurable, so long as there is some pay off. If you tease too much, though, you can risk frustrating your partner and that does not always work out so well. For one thing it can kill their buzz, and for another it may make them feel like you are not taking their pleasure seriously.

5. Don't stop if it is going well. Don't be afraid of success! If your partner is loving what you are doing and you have fund yourself in new territory on this front, try to keep going and don't get too freaked out with your own success.

It sucks (literally!) to be the only one giving head. Make sure that you are getting similar attention, especially if you are the sort of person who is generous to a fault. You should also know how to set boundaries, and know that it is fine to say no if you are not feeling like doing something that your partner asks, or expects, of you. At the same time, it is absolutely fine to tell your partner what you would like. If after a while your needs are still not being met, it may be time for a serious talk with your partner. Is it the case that he or she simply does not enjoy giving oral sex? Or perhaps they have simply had an experience that they are finding it hard to work through. Whatever the case, if you are committed to pleasing each other, you can work through it and learn together how to give the most mind blowing oral sex.

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