Having the best sex means finding a position -- and a partner -- just right for you. Sex is an all-senses experience, so get the setting, the mood (this can be music and lighting) just right. Prepare first, making sure you have to hand lubrication, condoms, and anything else you may need. Take time to include foreplay, and gradually build towards an incredible orgasm for the best sex you and your partner have ever had. Read on for details now!

Welcome to EasySex.com, where we bring you the best sex advice! Learn how YOU can have the best sex with our great new guide stuffed with information! From picking the right person to have the best sex with, to deciding which positions work for you, the following guide will ensure that you and your partner are soon having the best sex that either of you have ever had. From foreplay to learning why it is so important to relax, read on to discover how to have the very best sex.

Having great sex does not simply happen on its own -- although it can! What we are talking about here is how to have the best sex with another person -- this can be your long term partner, a one night stand, or a casual sex relationship. The important thing to remember is that it takes two to tango. Having great sex begins and ends pretty much with finding the right sexual partner for you. How do you do that? Well, it can happen in one of two ways -- organically, and digitally. To give an example of finding a partner organically, finding a partner to have the best sex with can happen as simply as walking into a club, bar, an event -- or even a supermarket! You might be introduced to someone via a friend -- or even a current lover! Whoever they are, they should really do something for you -- they could be very good looking, or they could be just the right build for you. They could be dominant or submissive, according to your taste, or they could just really be on your wavelength.

Finding a great sexual partner digitally kind of takes the same course of action, except that you meet them over the internet, or via an app, such as Grindr, Tinder, or the like. However you do it, when you choose a partner for sex, you are pretty much choosing how your sexual life will develop from here, so chose carefully! Another way to have the best sex is to have a threesome, foursome -- or more-some! Some people swear by group sex as a way to really get off, and it has been said that, for instance, double penetration can lead to the most powerful orgasms a woman can have. If you are adventurous then you might want to try this out. In a relationship? Well, that might not be a problem, so long as your partner is open minded, generous, and not the jealous type! There are lots of ways to pick up a third party, from hitting up a bar with your beau to using online dating apps.

There are about as many sex positions out there as there are thoughts in your head -- that means that pretty much whatever you can imagine, you can try it out -- within the realms of decency and the law, of course! Apart from that, anything goes. Having the best sex can include any number of sex positions, from one to as many as you can manage in one session! The missionary position is perhaps the most popular, or common, followed closely by doggy style. A few others are very popular, too, such as reverse cowgirl, and the ever popular 69. When you are thinking about sex positions, you might also want to think about where you get down and dirty, too. The setting can be all important, and sometimes it is a god idea to take sex out of the bedroom and start to live a little wildly. How can you do this? You can start to see what kinds of other places you like when it comes to sex.

Some couples like to try having sex standing up wherever they can, such as in alleyways, or doorways -- just be aware that you do not want to get caught doing this -- your country may have laws that take public sex very seriously, so do be considerate of them, and of others. Aside from this though, you can certainly find places other than the bedroom to have sex -- consider going away for a dirty weekend, such as checking into a hotel, or having sex in the countryside.

You might think that rushing towards an orgasm is the best way to enjoy sex, and if you haven't had it for a while you may in fact be right, but the truth is that if you take your time with sex you can end up not only having a harder and more pleasurable orgasm, but you will also be having better sex. What do we mean by better sex exactly? Well, for one thing, taking a bit more time to please and get pleasure from a sexual liaison means taking time with your body and with your partner's body. Pay more attention to the very sensitive areas of their body and while doing so, also be sure that you are being touched, stroked, licked, nibbled, sucked -- whatever you like -- in places that please you the most. Do this for each other and before long you will find that you are having the best sex ever!

You may have heard this advice before -- that to have the best sex you should please your partner first. What does this mean? Some people take this to mean that you should make your partner orgasm before you see about having your own wants and needs met during sex. This is very often the case, but it does not lead to the best sex. Put simply, if you are putting your partner's needs first, you will be focused on pleasuring them; this in turn will mean that they are more likely to pleasure you. And how about turn-based orgasms? Well, so long as you are both getting one, then that is okay, but how about coming together? There are few things to ensure intimacy and a great sex experience as having an orgasm at the same time.

Rushing to orgasm, putting your partner's needs way ahead of yours, or expecting your own orgasm to be the most important -- all of these things can really put a dampener on great sex. If you really want to make great sex last even longer, then go for the slow build approach. What does this mean? Basically, it means taking the time to engage in foreplay. Pay attention to each other's genitals, sure, but don't miss out on the other fun bits, such as the erogenous zones -- the parts of the body that have more heightened sensitivity than others. And kiss! Some couples seem to forget that kissing can be extremely erotic, as well as very, very intimate. Spend time building up the passion before you even start to have sex, and you will find that the sex itself is not only even better, but that it can last even longer, as well.

Going back to orgasms -- there are a few ways in which you can really build up to a great and even longer lasting orgasm, but there are not many that rival foreplay. If you can spend as long as possible getting your partner -- and yourself, as well, do not forget -- then you can start the ball rolling for a truly earth shaking orgasm. If you want the kind of orgasm that will have the neighbors complaining, then follow a few simple tips and you will get yourself there without much stopping you. First of all, make sure that you are with a partner who really turns you on. Now, this can take several forms, from straight up physical attraction to the kind of cerebral attraction that make people swoon for poets (think Cyrano de Bergerac.) Next, and most important of all, take your time. This cannot be stated strongly enough -- you need to pay attention to each other in order to have really great sex. Third of all, but not least by any means, is that you should relax. Stress can kill your sex drive, and if you rush sex, then both partners may start to feel some level of resentment, or at least they may feel a little neglected. If you relax, your body will be more receptive to sensual feelings, and it will have the added advantage of helping your partner to relax, too. The more relaxed your partner is, the more likely they are to really get into the moment and give you the attention and affection that you need during sex.

The answer is -- if YOU are enjoying yourself, chances are your partner is, too. That said though, a truly great lover is also a truly giving lover, which means that if you put your partner first and attend to their needs, you will likely have your needs met as well -- and if you are not, then you have a problem! The main thing to keep in mind here is that great sex is all about give and take. If you just take then your partner will end up not giving you as much attention as before, and it may even cause problems in your relationship -- in fact, it is likely to. If you just give, on the other hand, you are also setting yourself up for a less than satisfactory time of things, since your partner may also stop giving you what you need in terms of attention. To sum it up, then, give a little and take a little and you will find that you are on the right track for the best sex ever.

Have you ever had a time that the sex you were having just was not what you had hoped for, or expected? If so -- join the club! It can happen so often that sex just turns out to be a bit of a let down -- perhaps you suddenly got it in your head that you did not really find yourself attracted to your partner, or maybe they did something that grossed you out, put you off, or otherwise upset you during, just before, or right after sex. It happens! The best way to move forward with a new partner, or with an on-going one, is to make sure that you communicate your needs and your feelings to them. Don't go totally overboard here -- overly emotional partners can sometimes be a little tiresome -- but you absolutely must make your needs known to your sex partner, and ensure that they know it if there is something that you really do not like, or that you would really love it if they did for you. Keep an open mind, and listen to your partner's needs as well -- this cannot be a one way street! An attentive partner makes for a good lover, and this goes both ways.

So there you have it. If you have followed our advice in this easysex.com post, then you will be well on your way to having the best sex of your life!

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