A List Of The Best San Francisco Sex Clubs

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San Francisco Sex Club Ideas

San Francisco is one of our favorite cities to visit, and not just because of the cable cars! No, what we love are the people. There are so many interesting and unique people, which makes the San Francisco sex club scene just as interesting and unique. In fact, there are parties here that you'll never find in any other city! Even if you've lived in San Francisco your whole life, you can still find a new party to hit up or a new community to get to know. You haven't lived until you've joined a club in San Francisco!

History Of Sex Club Scene in San Francisco

The sex club scene in San Francisco got its start around the same time that the first cable cards were built in the city. This was the year 1873. It was this super speedy mode of transportation that allowed people to get around the city faster and inspired more daring and outrageous businesses to crop up all across the city. Throughout the 1900s, the scene only got more daring and adventurous, quickly becoming a safe and welcoming haven for the gay and BDSM community. Now San Francisco is home to many of the best BDSM dungeons and gay bathhouses in the world. The entire community in San Francisco was built on openness and acceptance and that is evident in the way the community has grown since its start. Attending a club or party in San Francisco is truly a special experience! You'll likely be aroused and discover things about your body and your sexuality that you didn't know were possible.

Best Times And Days To Go Out In San Francisco

There isn't a bad day to go out in San Francisco. Like many of the other cities with sex clubs we've covered, you can almost always find something sensual and erotic happening in San Francisco. However, the very best nights to get your kink on are Fridays and Saturdays. Many clubs and parties run super late on these nights so you can party hard all night long. This is definitely a city where you won't get much sleep on the weekends. Not that you want to, of course!

Sex Club Ideas: Directory

EasySex has searched the city of San Francisco for the very best and hottest sex clubs, parties, events and bathhouses. We're pretty sure you'll be entertained for a long time with the list we've come up with!

San Francisco Sex Clubs

San Francisco is a multi-faceted, colorful city, which is strongly reflected in the sex club scene. In fact, out of all the clubs we've visited, we're pretty sure that the ones in San Francisco are some of the most unique and interesting! We guarantee you'll have a sexy, thrilling experience at any of these members only San Francisco sex clubs:

Power Exchange

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

220 Jones Street, San Francisco California 94102

Website

Power Exchange

Any Notes

Open 7 days a week; 18 and over only; open to all backgrounds and orientations.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Power Exchange lauds itself as "America's Naughtiest Adult Club Experience" and after one visit we're absolutely sure you will agree with this. This members only club provides a safe and welcoming space where you can really dig into your deepest kinks and desires. The space itself offers up a huge assortment of play areas, dungeons, and fantasy rooms. So no matter what mood you are in, you can get it on at Power Exchange! Power Exchange has regular special event nights on the first and their Saturday of every month. They call these nights their "mini Halloween" nights so even if it's not October, you are encouraged to dress up and go all out!

Mission Control SF

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Membership Approval

Website

Mission Control SF

Any Notes

Club consists of online space and regular monthly events; tickets can be purchased in advance.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Mission Control is a members only club that celebrates the alternative lifestyle. They are volunteer run and full dependent on the support of their members, so it creates and incredible close and trusting atmosphere. Members of Mission Control are often members for life! Once you are approved as a member, you will have access to their list of sexy, kinky events. Their most popular events are the Threshold and Velvet BDSM nights. Mission Control also hosts an erotic Kinky Salon. More than simply events, though, Mission Control is all about creating a community through its members.

SF Citadel

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

181 Eddy Street, San Francisco, California 94102

Website

SF Citadel

Any Notes

Multiple weekly events; parking available

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

the SF Citadel Club is on a mission to provide its community with the very best in BDSM education and exploration. They host regular workshops, social nights, and special events for their members to explore their proclivities in a safe and welcoming space. There are dozens of different events and parties that members can attend but here are a few: Spank (a party for spanking), Crave (a party for members who identify as female), Taboo (a party for hardcore play), Tryst (a party for members looking for new partners). Citadel has so many incredible, erotic parties for its members that it's hard to keep track of them all. There is a reason people travel from all over to become Citadel members!

Bronze Party

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

Bronze Party

Any Notes

Couples and single women only; no cameras to be used on site.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Bronze Party was initially founded in Florida in 2008 but moved to San Francisco soon after, where it has been growing in popularity ever since. It provides a fun and relaxed swinging environment where all are welcome. The space where the parties take place is intimate and inviting, with plenty of nooks and crannies to cozy up in. Bronze Party has become a staple in the swinging community and partners with many other local swinging organizations. What the community loves about Bronze Party is how erotic and sensual the events are. You can always expect to have a mind blowing time at a Bronze Party event!

San Francisco Sex Events

We've got to be honest with you: there are so many San Francisco sex events that it can be hard to keep track of them all. Whether you're into swinging or bondage or other fetishes, you'll find the perfect event for you. We've listed just a few of our top events below. Check out this list for even more!

The Nob Hill Theatre

Type

Private Event

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

729 Bush St, San Francisco, California 94108

Website

The Nob Hill Theatre

Any Notes

Open 7 days a week; live shows every half hour.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Nob Hill Theatre is one of the oldest and longest running nude male shows in San Francisco. No matter what time you hit up this theatre, there is always a live show going on or about to start. The shows are fun, engaging, and most important: erotic. The Nob Hill Theatre also hosts regular special events like Rookie's Night, where the guests have the opportunity to be the stars of the show and Naked Night, where it is more than suggestion that the guests are naked too. But who would want to keep their clothes on with so many hot guys around?

Blow Buddies

Type

Private Event

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

Blow Buddies

Any Notes

Must join to have access to events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Blow Buddies is an infamous San Francisco club specifically for men wanting to explore safe sex options with other men. They've regularly won awards for their club and events, which is how you know it is worth a visit. Blow Buddies has over 250,000 members so their events are always busy and you can always meet someone new to hook up with. Blow Buddies has specialty events like Leather Buddies and Bear Buddies so no matter what your kink, you can get off at a Blow Buddies event!

Black Thorn

Type

Private Event

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

Black Thorn

Any Notes

Both private rentals and monthly events are available; must book in advance.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Black Thorn is a dungeon that specializes in all sorts of fetishes. It aims to be welcoming and accessible so people from all backgrounds and orientations can have a good time at Black Thorn. This venue has multiple rooms and plenty of different play things and equipment so you can explore whatever kinks and fetishes your heart desires. The equipment pieces include leather harnesses, bondage gear, whipping post, cage, and so much more! Black Thorn is an incredibly special space and time spent there will not be forgotten! Book now as it tends to be super popular.

San Francisco Sex Parties

We challenge you to find something more fun and thrilling than a San Francisco sex party! Chances are you won't be able to! We absolutely love the party scene in San Francisco and we're pretty sure you will too. Check out our top parties below!

442 Parties

Type

Private Party

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

442 Natoma St, San Francisco, California 94103

Website

442 Parties

Any Notes

Parties on Fridays through Mondays; cash only; valid ID required to enter.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

422 is a must-attend bar for any self respecting gay man in San Francisco. If you xhaven'tbeen to 422 yet, what are you waiting for? They host a different party every night of the week and are known for their incredibly hardcore and erotic parties. Their party nights include: Naked Mondays, Friday Fuck Fest, and Sunday $10 Buck Fuck. Saturdays are incredibly popular and rotate between CumUnion, Ritual, and Blackout. If you're having a hard time picking which party you want to go to, we don't blame you! We recommend trying them all out. All 422 parties have private play space, slings, glory hole booths, and giant flat screen TVs with the sexiest entertainment. A night spent at 422 is a night you, and your body, won't soon forget!

The Gulch

Type

Private Party

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

947 Folsom Street, San Francisco, California 94107

Website

The Gulch

Any Notes

Open 7 days a week; must provide ID upon entry; tickets available at the door.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

The Gulch is an established gay sex toy, video store, and arcade in downtown San Francisco. Along with selling products and having an open daily arcade, they also host regular parties. They're some of the most popular gay parties in the city and totally worth checking out, whether you're visiting the city or a regular. Wednesdays are Whip It Out Wednesdays, where guests can gain free entry to the arcade, which features private viewing rooms where you can enjoy yourself (and maybe someone else)! The Gulch has won "Best Cruise Spot" numerous times so we're pretty confident that it'll only take one visit for you to get in on that action.

Twist SF

Type

Private Party

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

Twist SF

Any Notes

Parties held every Friday and Saturday; by invite only; only couples and single ladies allowed.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Twist SF is quickly becoming one of the most popular lifestyle parties in San Francisco. They host intimate and sensual parties designed to have their guests exploring their bodies in ways they never thought possible. Twist is built on a foundation of trust and sex positivity so you know you will always be welcome at these parties! The dress code at Twist is always sexy and upscale; often they have theme parties too where you can dress up. What fun! Twist is BYOB but they have a bar set up with all the fixings so you can still enjoy a mixed drink while you party with other couples and single women. However it's important to remember that the focus of a Twist party isn't heavy drinking; rather it's exploring your deepest desires and sexuality!

San Francisco Bathhouses

There are bathhouses and then there are San Francisco bathhouses, which are in an entire league of their own. People travel from all across the country to visit these steamy bathhouses. There are many to choose from—too many to list—but we have listed the top two below!

Steamworks Baths

Type

Bathhouse

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

2107 4th Street Berkeley, CA 94710

Website

Steamworks Baths

Any Notes

Open 24 hours; men only; various membership and rental rates available on the website.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Steamworks Baths is a chain of bathhouses with locations across North America. They provide an upscale yet comfortable bath house experience that has first time visitors becoming members for life. Steamworks Baths includes a men's gym, sauna, and bathhouse. It's members only and completely private so you can enjoy all of the facilities as discreetly as you wish. They also have a rewards program where every time you visit you earn points. Going to a bathhouse has never been so rewarding!

Eros

Type

Bathhouse

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

2051 Market St, San Francisco, California 94114

Website

Eros

Any Notes

Open at 12PM daily; ID required for entry; cash only; ages 18 and over only.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Eros is a locally owned and operated bathhouse in San Francisco that has a reputation among the gay community for being one of the most fun and accommodating bathhouses. They've won multiple awards so you know you're going to have a great time here. The facilities include a communal lounge area, private shower rooms, and saunas. You can also indulge in a sensual massage at Eros. Check out their website for a full list of pricing and steamy upcoming events!

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We're quite positive that with this incredible list of San Francisco sex clubs, parties, and more that if you're only visiting the city you'll find a reason to come back and visit soon. We wouldn't even blame you for wanting to move here, to be honest. The parties are that good! But if you find yourself looking for another scene to explore, Houston is also a great time!