Sometimes your hookups might take the form of a booty call. A booty call is when someone calls or texts you asking to come over specifically for sex. It's usually not romantic and it addresses the fact that both of you have an itch that you need to scratch. The nature of a booty call is perfect for hookup culture because often casual hookups can also take the form of booty calls. Usually, you will have a booty call with someone that you have already hooked up with and it's a relationship that is built around how available for sex the other person is.

People understand booty calls as being one-sided with one person using another person for sex. But if you have ventured into the world of online hookup dating, you would find that this type of encounter can be sexually satisfying and empowering. Some more traditional dating will use dishonesty and subterfuge to create the atmosphere of a booty call which can make the person being booty called feel used or like a last resort. Hookup dating teaches people that being upfront about your sexuality and what you want is the best way to make sure that everyone is one the same page and that there are no hurt feelings. It's all about inviting someone over for sex or inviting someone to meet up for sex so it's not much different from a casual hookup.

It's pretty funny how sex is a part of traditional relationships, but people don't like to acknowledge that. Hookup dating doesn't shy away from sex and makes it a central focus of the relationship. Especially in today's busy world, most people prefer to have casual sex, sometimes in the form of booty calls, because that fits better with their schedule. If you have got a busy schedule, it's hard to keep a relationship going because the other person might start feeling neglected or resentful so a hookup relationship tends to work better for young professionals or really anyone who works long or odd hours. If you have received a booty call message, it can make you feel desirable and sexy. There's no right way to have a booty call but there are some things that you can do to make everything go a little easier and run smoothly so that both of you end up finishing happy.

A booty call is casual, but that doesn't mean you can slack off and not make any effort. The very nature of booty call means that it's fast and you don't your hookup to leave with a bad impression of you, the sexual experience, or even your place. That's another thing; most booty calls take place at people's houses. Preparing for a booty call is not that different from a traditional date except that it's supposed to be more casual. Just because you don't have to get all dressed up and sex is pretty much a guarantee, doesn't mean that you still don't have to be on your best behavior. If you want a repeat performance with this hookup, then you want to make sure that you are leaving them with a good impression of you. Booty calls have even started to gain more popularity for hookup dates especially with open relationships and they have their own dating etiquette. Booty calls are becoming pretty common but if you have never been in this kind of situation, you might be a little nervous and not know what to do.

If you have a booty call coming over, then you need to do a bit of preparation. You might only have an hour or even less time before a hookup is going to show up so everything needs to be done quickly. This is where multitasking is going to be very important as you will have to do a lot of things in a short amount of time.

To prepare for an impromptu booty call, you need to make sure that everything is clean and tidy. This doesn't only mean your place, but also yourself. You want to take a shower even if you don't think that you are dirty. Just take a few minutes to freshen up. No one wants to sleep with someone who smells or whose hair is greasy. While you are in there, you will want to do all the grooming stuff you normally do, including shaving, trimming, brushing your teeth, flossing, exfoliating, and anything else you would usually do.

If you don't have time, brush your teeth, shave, and wash your face while you are already in the shower. This saves you time that you can spend doing other things. You should also make sure that you clean under your nails and your toes. If it's your first time hooking up with someone, it's important to remember good hygiene. A good general rule is to keep your nails and toenails clean and trimmed. Too long or dirty nails can turn someone off which will ruin both your nights. It's something that people pay attention to even if they don't always think they do. It's also a good indicator of someone's personal habits. It also shows that you take care of yourself and have pride in your appearance.

While you are getting dressed, prep your lips getting rid of dry skin and then putting on a lip balm after to let it soak in. Dry, chapped lips are not sexy and with the amount of kissing that you will be doing you want to make sure that your lips will hold up all night. You shouldn't neglect your body either. Moisturize every inch of your body once you have patted yourself dry. By the time your booty call gets there, you will have soft and supple skin. A lot of the pleasure of sex comes from skin to skin contact so if you are planning on hooking up with someone, make sure that your skin feels amazing to touch. It will drive them crazy. If there's a special ritual that you do before you hook up with someone, you should do it before your booty call arrives.

Taking care of your body also means eating. If you are hungry, consider grabbing a power bar or some other kind of snack. Also making a smoothie with lots of protein can give you a boost of energy to help keep your stamina up all night. The last thing you want is to have your stomach interrupt you.

If your booty call is coming to your place, you should probably tidy up a bit. They probably won't be spending a lot of time going over every nook and cranny but you should still make sure it looks clean and tidy. Consider even doing a quick vacuum to make sure that there's no dirt or dust on your floor or carpets. If you don't have carpets, a quick sweep is fine to get rid of dust. If you have got pets, maybe put your pet away in another room or in their cage because you don't want them interrupting you. Also if they have a lot of furs, you will want to make sure that there's none on your pillows, couches, or floors. Leaving someone's house covered in pet hair is not something that people enjoy so be considerate of that.

Now move to the bedroom and make your bed with fresh sheets. It doesn't matter if they don't smell; nobody wants to have sex on someone's dirty sheets. This is also a good rule if you know that someone might be staying the night with you, just take a few minutes and change your sheets. This also includes pillow cases. Just flipping the pillow over isn't going to cut it. When you have got have an impromptu booty call, whether or not you know the person, you don't want them to see a messy room with piles of dirty and clean laundry. If you don't the time, just hide it in your closet and deal with it when they leave. You want to make a good impression and living like a slob isn't a good one. Then move to the bathroom because it's the other room in the house that they will be spending time in especially if they want to freshen up. Leave some clean towels in the bathroom in case they need them.

You can't always count on your hookup to come prepared. Booty calls happen spontaneously and they don't always have time to grab a condom or lube. Or, they might assume that you have some and so they don't bring anything. Make sure that you can both enjoy yourselves by keeping a box of condoms, some lube, baby wipes, and anything else you might need in your bedroom drawer or in your bathroom for easy access. You don't want to put either yourself or your partner at risk of pregnancy or anything else so it's a good idea to always be prepared and practice safe sex. If you are planning on hookup dating in the future, get into the habit of checking the expiry date on condoms. If they are expired, replace the box so that next time you don't have to worry about it.

A lot of booty calls happen at night so there's not always a store open where you can get the things that you need so keeping stocked up is a good idea. The last thing you want is for your booty call to show up for nothing because neither of you was prepared. If you want to add some excitement to your booty call, try getting some spicy lube or flavored lube to try out together. It's a fun way to add a little spice to your sexual encounters.

Once you have done all your preparation, now it's time to set the mood. Go into your closet and put on your sexiest underwear. What you are wearing doesn't really matter since it will end up on the floor but you still want to tease them a little. If you can't think of what to wear, choose something comfortable and that's easy to take off so that you can get to the good stuff quicker. Undressing someone is very sexy, builds anticipation and can act as a kind of foreplay.

A light fragrance can help set the mood. Spraying a slightly masculine or fresh scent is a good way to add something to your room. This will also help your place feel a lot cleaner. If you like having music playing, you can pick a sexy playlist to have as background noise. Just make sure that it sets the right mood. It doesn't have to only be R&B slow jams but you definitely don't want loud or really heavy music. You can even consider putting on a show for them with a slow striptease before.

A booty call isn't a date so you don't need to worry about going all out with your prep. You want to still look casual and like you didn't try too hard, make it seem like you always live like this rather than you were trying to impress them. You can always offer them dinner afterward but they will probably say no. When they actually come over, offer them something to drink. The most important thing to remember when it comes to booty call hookups is that everything should be really casual, easy, and fun. The less stressful it feels, the better the time that you are going to have. At the end of your hookup, you will be left feeling satisfied.

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