There are multiple categories that sex toys can fall into but the two main ones are for enhancing pleasure or helping pleasure. Too many people view the latter category, helping pleasure, as being a cop out or cheating. As if you used this sort of sex toy it means you aren't "enough" or you aren't engaging in sex the right way. Well, we here are EasySex.com absolutely do not agree with that! We think that all kinds of sex toys, whether they are purely for fun or are there to help, are good and important for engaging in fun and fulfilled sexual experiences. With that being said, let's talk about extender sex toys! These bad boys are also often referred to as penis extenders are we absolutely love them.

So What Is An Extender Sex Toy?

Now, maybe you know what an extender is and maybe you don't. But likely, even if you do, you may have a negative opinion of them and we want to wipe that negative opinion clean away. That is because extender sex toys are great! An extender sex toy is exactly how it sounds: it is a device that is used to extend the length or girth of a penis. Often they get a bad rap because if one is being used, it implies that the man's penis isn't good enough without it. First of all, penises come in all shapes and sizes and it is totally normal that some people might enjoy having a bit of an extension. Second, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a bit of extension for any reason.

The Basics

An extender sex toy is generally made out of a rubber or silicone and it is designed to fit over the head and shaft of the penis. There are a lot of different varieties of extenders. Some are super basic and simply extend the penis length and others double as vibrators or do other things to enhance sexual pleasure. Nearly all extenders are designed to fit over penises of all sizes and shapes so you don't have to worry about not getting a good fit. Most people who use a penis extender say that it can feel a bit odd the first time, as it is a noticeable weight, but after a few moments they hardly remember that they are wearing an extender.

How It Differs From A Regular Dildo

We put extenders in the dildo category because it felt like the best fit but to be honest, they are totally different from dildos. So, in that regard they differ a lot! A dildo is designed to penetrate on its own without a penis whereas an extender is meant to fit over a penis. In order to be used, an extender must be worn over a penis. It can't be held or attached to anything else. But beyond that, generally extenders and dildos are made from the same materials and generally look the same and end up performing the same task: penetrating.

Pros of an Extender

There are so many fantastic pros for using a penis extender sex toy but the biggest one is probably the most obvious: it enhances the size and girth of a penis. That can only be a good thing, right? Right! If you want to be even larger to really multiple your partner's pleasure via penetration than an extender is the way to go. Even if you are already fairly big, you can always go bigger! And the great thing about an extender is that you can take it off. Nearly 90% of women say that they don't want a super large penis all the time, but it can always be fun to introduce an extender for a little bit of temporary play.

Cons of an Extender

The cons of using an extender aren't so much with the extender itself but how people react to it. There is such a stigma around penis size and men are always afraid that they are too small or not long enough. While a penis extender does make someone longer, it can also at the same time make them feel inadequate because they needed help to get there. We are hoping that over time, if more and more people use extenders and really advocate for them as not only a help in the bedroom but a fun accessory then the stigma will wear off. After all, the average penis size is not 9 inches long, no matter how much porn tries to convince us otherwise.

EXTENDER SEX TOY REVIEWS

And now we're ready to dive into some penis extender sex toy reviews. Now, there are a lot of different kinds of extenders out there but we only wanted to share with you the best of the best. So below you will find reviews for four such extenders: the Black Silicone 2" Penis Extension, Fantasy X-Tensions Mega 3" Penis Extension, The Colossus VixSkin Penis Extender, and the Squirting Penis Enhancer Sheath. Each of these is slightly different so depending on what you are looking for in an extender, one may meet your needs more than another.

Why You Should Use An Extender Sex Toy

Now, it's likely that you are still on the fence about adding a penis extender into your sex toy rotation. The negative stigma is very strong with this sex toy and we don't expect that a few paragraphs will so easily change it! That is why we gathered a handful of user reviews to hopefully help to convince you even more that it is actually a positive sex toy experience. We hope that after reading these you'll be on the extender bandwagon like all of these other users clearly.

"I'm on the average size and never felt too bad about it. My girlfriend was the one who wanted to try an extension. At first I didn't want to. I thought I should be enough. She kept begging and finally I said I'd do it once. It ended up being a lot of fun and now we play with it regularly. I think of it as a toy now instead of a crutch." - You don't have to be super small to get pleasure out of using an extender! Sometimes it can simply be an addition to your sexual routine to change things up.

"I'm wide but not very long. My partner is always wanting a deep pounding so the only thing I could do was try an extender. I've used toys before but not an extender. I got one that vibrates so it's doing more than just extend." - So many extenders out there also perform extra tasks, like vibrating or having ribs for extra pleasure so if it helps you can think of it as not just something that's extending your penis, but also making it more like a sexy toy!

"I wanted to get an extender for my boyfriend but I was super like afraid he'd take it the wrong way and then I was worried that maybe something was wrong with me, like why couldn't I enjoy sex without help? I decided to just go for it and I'm glad because now it's both our fave toy." - Women can be just as nervous asking about an extender toy too! They often feel worried about not only upsetting their partner but that they might be doing something wrong to not enjoy sex without that sort of "help." It takes a lot of courage to approach a partner about introducing this toy to the routine!

"It's helped me feel more confident and perform better and that's worth the initial weird reactions. When I bust out my extender on hookups, a lot of women scoff at it at first. But after I get it on and use it, they shut up." - Don't be afraid to try to normalize using an extender! Not only will this help to ease the stigma but it will also help you to own this and start to see it as an addition rather than a crutch that is holding you back. It doesn't control you, you control it!

"It's helped me to like my natural penis even more, believe it or not." - An extender toy doesn't have to make you feel ashamed of your penis, nor should it! Instead, it's enhancing what you already have and helping you to work with what you have. After all, that's just what all sex toys are doing!

We hope these inspiring words are inspiring you to purchase yourself an extender. This is one sex to that you'll be glad you have in your arsenal. Yes, it will take a little bit of getting used to but it is totally worth it! And remember, the more we all agree to positively use an extender in our sex lives, the more it will help to remove the stigma surrounding them. If you're looking for even more EasySex.com sex toy reviews, click here and if you want to dive into more dildo specific reviews, click here!