What is a Sex Club?

Excellent first question! A sex club is set up a lot like your ordinary nightclub, but the only difference is that people aren't just here to dance, mingle and have a few drinks. While of these components are at a sex club, there is almost always a second section - either another floor or back area - that is primarily fill of couches, beds, or smaller individuals rooms. This is where people have sex, either with the person they came with, or other people they met at the club.

You have to a member to join a sex club, and that usually involves a monthly or annual fee. Unlike a brothel, you don't have sex with the people who work there, but just other members of club. Most people attend as couples, who are part of the swinging lifestyle, which usually means open relationships. 'Sex clubs' can also include bathhouses, BDSM dungeons, and strip clubs, as almost all of them require membership or a 'cover fee' just for entry.

Who goes to Sex Clubs?

Sex clubs are open to all adults, but the ages restriction is either eighteen or twenty one and older. People join if them in they're in open relationships, which simply means that they are allowed to sleep with people other than their partner. Single people are welcome, too, but there is sometimes a limit as to how many will be welcome on a given night. If there's one thing that similar for all members of these clubs, it's definitely an openness to their own sexuality and the sexuality of others.

How did Swinging Get Popular?

Swinging got popular in the sixties and seventies, around the time of the sexual revolution. 'Wife swapping' was popular among military families, where it was acceptable for a woman whose husband was serving overseas for months or years to sleep with the husband of another military family. This grew into 'trading partners', even when both were home. Certainly the hippie communes played a role as well, which changed the idea of what marriage and open relationship could be.

Of course, thanks to the internet, finding partners has never been easier, although some people truly do enjoy the surprise and anonymity that comes with going to an actual sex club location.

What Do You Need To Get Into Swinging and Sex Clubs?

A healthy interest in exploring your sexuality, that's for sure. It's no surprise that a lot of people enjoy having sex, but there's a rather small percentage of people who enjoy switching up the people they have sex with on a regular basis. Even as open relationships have become more popular for various reasons (if jobs require a lot of travel, for instance, or if that's just what turns some people on), there's different ways to go about it. Some people only swinging with a small circle of trusted friends. Meanwhile, sex clubs offer the chance to have sex with people who are for the most part complete strangers (for some swingers, that is the turn on).

3 Fun Facts About the Swinging Lifestyle

1. You don't have to be in a relationship, but it's a big plus! Sex clubs don't want to discriminate against singles, but they definitely do look more kindly on people that come in pairs. It just keeps the balance of men-to-women more manageable, and there's a bit more trust between a trade of partners rather than one of them suddenly being left alone (or to watch) if it's a couple plus one new person. There's usually a limit of how many single men are allowed in a club on a particular evening.

2. Most Sex Clubs are just Sex Night Clubs! You might actually be disappointed the first time you enter a sex club, since it looks a heck of a lot like a normal nightclub, with people wearing clothes and sipping drinks and dancing the night away. It was always meant to be this way, so people can relax before going back to the second space in the club, which has a lot more bedroom and kinky elements to it

3. BDSM Dungeons are a twist on Sex Clubs! For those who like to get spanked, squeezed and tied up, there are always a lot of choices in terms of places to go that look a like playground mixed with a torture chamber. But it's important to know that there is actually very little traditional sex acts that happen in the world of BDSM. The focus is more on the actual fetish and kinks and being turned on by that, than actual intercourse.

A Little Bit About Philadelphia

Philadelphia is one of the oldest and most historic cities in the United States. It was here where the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution was signed, and for brief periods during the American Revolution it was even the capital of the country. One of its best known landmarks is the Liberty Bell. Today it is the largest city in Pennsylvania, with a great arts and culture scene. In fact, the Philadelphia Museum of Art is one of the largest art galleries in the world, although most people know it for its steps out front, which was made famous in the movie Rocky, when the boxer triumphantly ran up them.

The Philadelphia Sex Club History

While perhaps not as well known as Los Angeles or New York as hedonistic pleasure spot, there have always been a lot of great places in Philadelphia for people who are feeling quite frisky and fun. The Pleasure Garden is one of the best swinger's clubs on the whole Northeastern Seaboard. Many strip clubs here like Delilah's and The Gold Club have been around for decades. There's even some really fun quirky dive bar locations like The Republican Club with their acrobatic dancers. One thing that needs to be mentioned is the Saints and Sinners' second location, which is an hour away in Atlantic City. Philadelphia is the closest major metropolis to this resort destination, and this club has their own place right in the heart of the fun. It's an amazing weekend getaway spot for any swinging couple.

How to Stay Safe at a Sex Club

Some people are immediately worried about the sex club experience will involve them being dragged onto a bed by an overage couple wearing some weird party mask, but that is far, far from the case. The whole Sex Club community revolves around the idea of consent and respect, because if someone is not enjoying themselves or being forced to do something they do not want to do, then it's a huge problem for everyone attending. Clubs do not tolerate this sort of behaviour at all.

Alongside this is simply privacy, and this is true in swinging as well. You just don't make a really big deal of this part of your life with people you don't 'swing' with. Not that you are ashamed at all, but it's definitely acknowledged that discreetness is appreciated, since it really could make life a bit more difficult if all your friends and everyone at your work knows that you enjoy going to sex clubs.

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