The modern aspect of Killing Kittens is wonderful. Don't start with a building, start with the community, and the best way to connect so many people from across the globe is online. Having a sex-positive, women-only social media site is really great, because even before you start thinking about attending one of the events, you can still learn a ton of great sex tips and health advice and everything else in a really relaxed and open community.
And once you go to one of the parties, you realize just how well they've been planned and set up. They're always in discreet and debonair locations, with someone handing you a glass of champagne as you step inside (other drinks you have to pay for, though). Being able to walk out onto the balcony and watch the sun set on the New York City skyline with a bunch of beautiful, sexy people is an amazing experience. And what happened next inside in the play rooms was even better.
The whole site, community and party experience also does a good job at bringing both agency to women, but also a necessary balance in the sex lives of men and women. There's no 'anti-man' attitude here at all, which is great practically (you want them to be at the parties, after all) and mentally (this is supposed to be a sex-positive place, so skipping the negativity is important for the party vibe). I found that respect and consent were just as present here than at some of the other sex clubs my partner and I had visited over the last couple years, but I will say it still felt good to know that at least the whole party was put on by a women-centric organization.
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