INTRODUCTION:
Exploring your sexuality is something that's easy to be taken for granted now, because it feels like a safe swinging environment has been around forever. But it was really only since the nineteen sixties that it was something that you didn't really have to hide and worry about. People began to form groups that would get together from time to time in each others' houses, or rented hotel suites. Then it was thanks to the internet that so many people who couldn't connect any other way began to meet and hook up with each other.
Even though New York is the biggest city in the country, and there are opportunities galore to meet people who are as interested as swinging as you are, a little bit of help from the internet can help grease those wheels. Whether you're a couple or just someone who is really interested in meeting so really hot people, Intimate Party is one of the best roving parties in New York. Once you join, you just have to keep your eyes and ears to find out when the next event is going to happen.
Keep reading below to learn everything you need to know about Intimate Party, here in EasySex.com!
ABOUT:
Intimate Party has a very direct name, and beyond that it doesn't like talking that much about itself, preferring to show the people it picks for its events what it's all about. Obviously no addresses and phone numbers, so even if your first knowledge of it comes from another swinging couple (which was the case for my partner and I), you still have to apply online to become a member. A unique take is that the organizers recommend that guests apply as individuals, rather than couples, which is usually what is preferred in the swinging community. They asked so rather penetrating questions, and I suppose that if you're a bit squeamish to answer, then you're too squeamish to attend.
In fact attendance isn't guaranteed once you become a member, because with only forty people permitted at an event, there is a handpicked guest list to ensure gender balance. How this is truly decided by the organizers is yet another mystery Intimate Party keeps close to its chest.
Similarly, the venues are also quite discreet, with the locations revealed only after you've been formally invited. They are quiet upscale spaces, with plenty of room to socialize a bit - you may bring your own alcohol, and mixers will be provided - before the show begins. Only after it has completed is everyone allowed to move into the play areas and shed their clothes. Condoms are given out free of charge, and you are more than welcome to bring toys as long as you keep them properly hygienic.
FEATURES:
-a close-knit, carefully selected group of swingers based in New York City
-events are monthly, at different upscale locations across the city
-no pressure at all to engage in sexual activity during the party
-consent is a cornerstone of the group's ethos
-dress code requires no street clothes, and suggests that something you would wear for a cocktail party will suffice
-events are careful planned with set times for cocktail reception, a series of erotic performances, before everyone is allowed to mingle and play
-unlike many other sex clubs, guests are encouraged to apply for membership as individuals instead of couples
-there is a cutoff amount of only forty people per event
-by selecting the people who will attend the party among group members, they can ensure a proper male-female balance of attendees
-condoms are provided free of charge, although you must provide your own lubricant and toys (and make sure they are clean and safe to use)
-participants are typically in their mid twenties to late thirties
-while alcohol is not provided at events, members are encouraged to bring their own (BYOB), and the organizers will provide mix free of charge
-cleanliness is paramount on the premises, sheets are freshly washed daily, towels are provided for free, and there are two bathrooms around the play-space, both with showers
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