What is a Sex Club?

To make it simple, a sex club is a place where people have sex, but it's usually set up a lot like a nightclub. In fact, when you walk in the door, you'll notice that there's a dance floor, a bar, and tables and chairs where people are socializing. The part that makes the difference is the second area, on a different floor or a separate section, which has plenty of beds and smaller rooms, where people have sex with each other. Either with the people they came with, or strangers they just met at the club.

You have to join a sex club in order to participate, and becoming a member means applying and paying fees either monthly or annually, or when you show up at the club. People tend to go these clubs as couples, and they are in open relationships, which means they are comfortable with their partners sleeping with others. 'Sex clubs' come in many forms, including bathhouses (primarily for gay customers) BDSM dungeons, as well as strip clubs, and what makes them similar is that a fee is required for entry.

Who goes to Sex Clubs?

Like all adult establishments, sex clubs require that all attendees are eighteen and older (twenty one if alcohol is being served). If you're interested in sex clubs, then it makes sense that you are probably very comfortable with your sexuality, and want to explore it with others. Most people don't go to sex clubs alone, as those that do attend are already in a relationship where swinging plays a large role. By going as a couple, there's definitely someone else there they know they can have sex with if no one else there is exciting enough for them.

How did Swinging Get Popular?

Swinging became popular in the nineteen sixties, first with 'wife swapping' among military families (while the husband was overseas). It became more popular with the general sexual revolution at the time, when people were re-thinking what it meant to be married and in a relationship. Sex was no longer a dirty thing that wasn't discussed outside of the bedroom. In fact, many hippie communes at this time first embraced the idea of open relationships, where you aren't really committed to one person for your whole life.

Like a lot of things, the internet made swinging even easer than ever before, since it's easy to find people online to have sex with. Sex clubs have remained popular, though, as it's a great way to meet face to face.

What Do You Need To Get Into Swinging and Sex Clubs?

The most important thing to have is an open mind regarding your own sexuality, as well as the sexuality of others. If you're not excited about the idea of having sex with other people, some of whom you may have just met moments earlier, then swinging might not be for you. Of course, being in an open relationship means finding someone who is excited about the prospective of being in one, just as much as you. Some swingers only 'pair up' with other couples that they already know, or are friends with (and are also into that lifestyle). Sex clubs help a lot, because there's already a lot of people there who are interested in the same thing.

3 Fun Facts About the Swinging Lifestyle

1. Being in a Relationship Helps a Whole Lot! If you go a sex club with your partner, then you're guaranteed with ending up in the arms of someone. It also helps keep the ratio between men and women in check. Single people are welcome, but since it's typically men that attend more than women, there is usually a limit on how many guys can come solo.

2. Most Sex Clubs are a lot like Night Clubs! Despite what people might think about sex clubs thanks to movies or pornography, there's not a bunch of people having sex as soon as you walk in. The owners really make it seem a lot like a normal night club, where you can dance and chat, and it's further back where there are beds and lounge areas and private rooms.

3. Bathhouses are also Sex Clubs! While mainly catering to the gay community, bathhouses are sex clubs that have baths, saunas, jacuzzis, and other gym-like elements where men can socialize. Like sex clubs, they also have private rooms and lounge areas, and depending on the club, you can rent rooms and have sex there.

A Little Bit About New York City

New York City is the biggest city in the country, and everyone knows it's nicknamed the Big Apple. But the reason why is a complete mystery, but supposedly has something to do with getting a lot more attention than other places in America. It's famous for many sights, like the Statue of Liberty, the Empire State Building, and Central Park. It's one of the most international cities in the world, as many immigrants who came from around the would first arrived here, and many settled down in the city, plus it's also the headquarters of the United Nations.

The New York City Sex Club History

Being America's biggest city, New York has long held the reputation (both fairly and unfairly at times) as being a really wild place. Into the sixties and seventies, Times Square was known for being a pretty sleazy place, with strip clubs and peep shows and a lot of other risque behaviors. It was around this time, in the late seventies, that the one of the first and best known sex clubs in the nation opened in the city, Plato's Retreat. Although closed now, in its wake came many other clubs and bathhouses that still stand until this day.

How to Stay Safe at a Sex Club

Consent, respect, and 'no means no' are the cornerstones of every good sex club experience. All members of the club, as well as the owners/organizers, and employees who work there all know that they must work as a team to enforce these basic rules. it should be common sense that no one should be forced to do anything they do not want to do in these situations, but it's also made clear that no unwanted and offensive behavior will ever be tolerated.

In addition, even though open relationships and sex clubs are much more accepted these days, many swingers still wish to keep this part of their lives quiet, so privacy and discreetness is expected from all members of the community. In essence, it's a matter of just 'do not kiss and tell', since some people don't want their friends and family to know about this part of their life.

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