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INTRODUCTION:
After one failed long term relationship because my partner and I's sexual chemistry hit a brick wall, I took a long look at myself and realize that my problem was that I didn't want just one partner. I never told them how often i fantasized about other people, whether those I worked with, or even someone I just happened to glance at on the street. And for too long I thought that I would never be able to have a normal relationship, because the desire to get intimate with someone else was always there.
Now I've obviously heard about swinging and open relationships, but i wasn't sure if I could do that, either. From what I could tell looking online, I still had to go to a sex club that was like a crazy big nightclub have to dance and flirt and all those things I've been terrible at (and didn't like doing) all this time. So I was surprised and thrilled to find that there also some much more low-key swinger communities where it's more likely you'll be hanging around a barbecue than a dance floor. It was the New England Couples Club, and for a lot of people, it'll be the best thing ever.
Keep reading below to learn all you need to know about the New England Couples Club, here on EasySex.com!
ABOUT:
While it's definitely a swingers clubs, the New England Couples Club is a lot different from any of the other sex clubs I've ever briefly checked out. Most of these places are actual clubs that are run like bars or concert venues, where you pay cover, buy drinks at the bar (or bring booze with you), dance with random people, and then you can go into the back area and get intimate with them. And to be honest, I was only interested in the very last part, because I've never been a club person. And New England Couples Club is perfect for that, because events pretty much take place only a members' houses, a rented hotel room suite, or a cabin or cottage (depending on the time of year).
It's much more down-to-earth and approachable than from anything else I've ever tried. Even the design of the website shows how much they would rather get to meet you in person, or at least over the phone, since that's how you become a member. Only then are you invited to the orientation night, just to see if you'd get along with the other members, and then it's a matter of attending the parties. Even member fees are nearly non-existent, and you only really pay to help get a event set up. Actually spending a bit of time in someone's backyard with a drink while my partner chats it up inside is a much more relaxing scenario for both of us than having to get dressed up to go to a club. And when you're relaxed, you're that much more excited when the evening gets more intimate and sexy, so that when it's time to actually trade partners, you're more than ready to go.
FEATURES:
-a low-key swingers club based mainly in Boston area and beyond (from northern Rhode Island to southern Maine)
-they prefer phone interviews regarding membership, rather than an online email inquiry
-if you've always wanted to host a swinger's night, here's your chance, as the club administrators are willing to help you organize one
-they occasionally host orientation nights for newcomers
-at certain house party locations, there are enough rooms for over twelve couples, along with several hot tubs
-parties are couples and women only, with the occasional 'Ladies Choice' and 'Barely Legal Dance Parties' events also open to single men
-to be put on the guest list, you simply call the organizers
-by meeting in houses, simple things like bring food or other party accessories is a great way to contribute
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