What is a Sex Club?

Great question! A sex club is actually a lot like a regular nightclub, but the huge difference is that people come here to do more than socialize and bust out their dance moves. While that's part of the evening, the second part of the club - either a different floor or back section - has plenty of sofas, beds, and smaller rooms. It is a place where couples can have sex with each other, or with people they have just met earlier in the first section of the club.

To participate you have to join a sex club, and that typically means paying a fee every month or once a year. This isn't like a whorehouse or brothel, where people work there and are paid to have sex. People typically attend as couples, and they're people who are polyamorous, meaning they have sex with other people while in a relationship. 'Sex clubs' can also include BDSM dungeons, bathhouses and even strip clubs, as they demand some form of membership or a 'cover fee' just to go inside.

Who goes to Sex Clubs?

Sex clubs are open to adults, but in some places where alcohol is served, the age restriction is twenty one, not eighteen. Couples are the most popular members for sex clubs, and these couples are typically swingers, another term for the polyamorous. Single people can attend certain events during the week, but there might be a cap on how many can enter. One thing that really binds people who enjoy sex clubs together is a desire to explore their sexuality with many other people.

How did Swinging Get Popular?

Around the time of the sexual revolution, swinging began to be more accepted. 'Wife swapping' was popular among military families, In the military, when a husband was serving overseas for months or years, it was occasionally acceptable for his wife to sleep with the husband of another military family, and this became known as 'wife swapping'. In some cases, this continued after the tour of duty was over. In addition, the hippie movement of the sixties altered the idea of what a relationship could be between two or more people.

These days, with the power of the internet, you can quickly find sexual partners that might live very close to you, although sex clubs are still popular for couples wanting to meet many other swingers in one location.

What Do You Need To Get Into Swinging and Sex Clubs?

You definitely have to be comfortable and excited about sex, obviously, when it comes to sex clubs. Some couples prefer changing up the people that they have sex with quite constantly. Others pursue open relationships if they live in different areas, or have to travel regularly, or just to spice up their love life. This can be done by finding out that some close friends who they're attracted to feel the same way, but that can be rather rare. Sex clubs usually solve the first challenge of finding other couples who are okay with the idea of open relationships. For some, the fact that these people are strangers are what makes it more exciting.

3 Fun Facts About the Swinging Lifestyle

1. Being in a Relationship is Helpful but Not Essential! Sex clubs prefer couples to singles. It's a helpful way to make sure that nobody is suddenly left out, by keeping the balance of men and women more or less in check. It also makes it easier to relax when you know that your partner is also here, even when you're paired with someone else. There's typically a cap on the amount of single men who are allowed in a club each night.

2. Most Sex Clubs are just Sex Night Clubs! Sex clubs were always designed to seem like a normal looking nightclub when you first walk in, but that's not to hide what's actually going on, but just because it's good way to meet new people in a bar and dance floor-type setting. It's important to be able to relax and socialize a bit before you move on to the sexier side of things.

3. BDSM Dungeons are a twist on Sex Clubs! While wearing a lot of leather and being put in handcuffs might not sound sexy to a lot of people, for those in BDSM community it is. There are certain studio spaces that have been built up to be a playroom of sex, although it looks like it might hurt quite a lot. BDSM focuses on getting pleasure out of pain, and there is actually very little normal sex and intercourse during a play scenario.

A Little Bit About Boston

Boston is one of the oldest cities in the United States, having been found in 1630, and has had many historical moments take place within its borders. This includes the Boston Tea Party and the Siege of Boston, both of which were key moments in the Revolutionary War. Boston's location of the Atlantic coast meant it was a key shipping destination, and the city grew quickly. Some on the best known colleges in the country call the city their home, like Harvard and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. Boston is also quite proud of its sports teams, with the New England Patriots and the Boston Red Sox being some of the best known football and baseball teams in the country, with plenty of recent championships under their belts.

The Boston Sex Club History

Boston's history as being a shipping town meant there were always a lot of people coming and going and looking for a bit of quick fun on the side. Surprisingly, though, many of the better known sex and strip clubs are actually outside of the city limits, either near the North or South Shores of Massachusetts Bay. Some of the old strip clubs, like the Cabaret Lounge, have been there for over forty years. South of the city is the wonderfully designed Foxy Lady Brockton. There are also plenty of sex clubs that meet at private locations around New England, and the big one is Temptations Group Parties.

How to Stay Safe at a Sex Club

Staying safe at sex club is easily one of the main goals of the members, owners and organizers, and to make sure that's the case, there are strict rules about consent and dignity, and it stressed that 'no means no'. Basically, no one should be forced to do anything they feel uncomfortable about doing. Anyone who breaks these basic rules about kindness and respect will be asked to leave immediately.

Another important aspect of the sex club and swinging lifestyle is being able to keep this part of your life private. Discreetness is expected not only between members at the party or event, but all the employees who work there as well. Even though people's ideas about sex and open relationships are changing rather quickly, it's still understood that you might not want your friends, family and co-workers to know you swing on the weekends.

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