What is a Sex Club?

Okay, first things first. A sex club is indeed a club where people have sex, but it is certainly a bit more complicated than that. It's not like a brothel, where you pay to haves sex with someone who works at the brothel as a prostitute or escort. Instead, all members pay a fee - either one that is paid regularly, like monthly or yearly, or at the door each time you attend - and the members have sex with each other. The club may have a dance floor or singing area, but there is a separate area with couches, beds, and private rooms where it can very hot and heavy.

While typically open to all adults, it is most common for couples to join and attend a sex club event together, and will 'swap out' with other couples there, or engage in much more group behaviour. In this way, sex clubs are very popular in the the swinger lifestyle. It's also important to note that 'sex club' is an umbrella term for a lot of membership-only adult clubs, which can include bathhouses.

Who goes to Sex clubs?

A lot of people! Maybe even your quiet, boring neighbours! Sex clubs have been associated with the swinging lifestyle - that is, a couple who enjoys having sex with other people while in their relationship - since the first establishments began to open in the 1970s. Over the years, as more and more people begin to have open and polyamorous relationships, sex clubs became more and more popular. According to many sex clubs, the average swinging couple is middle class and in their late-thirties or early forties, and can come from all walks of life, although obviously a comfort with sexual openness is an important quality that all participants have.

How did Swinging Get Popular?

While people sleeping with those they aren't married to is as old as marriage itself, certainly the sexual revolutions of the 1960s and hippie communes was a huge leap forward in change what the very rigid and traditional ideas of what relationships and marriage was. Even in the suburbs there was 'wife swapping' and 'key parties' (where couples got to a house and the men throw their car keys in a bowl, and then the women take the keys out randomly, and go home with whoever's keys they are). Your parents might have a lot more interesting life than you think.

It definitely should be noted that the internet - making it easy to connect with people who have similar tastes and fantasies no matter where they are - certainly help bringing swinging and sex clubs into mainstream erotic culture.

What Do You Need To Get Into Swinging and Sex Clubs?

First and foremost, you have to be totally comfortable with having sex with strangers you may have only met minutes earlier while at the club. While open relationships sometimes entail a couple only having sex with some people they might already be friends with, swinging and sex clubs are much, much more open. This means that a very adventurous mind and someone very comfortable with expressing their sexuality is pretty important to have fun in the swinging and sex club lifestyle. It is especially important to find a partner who feels the same way, as this can quickly become a hobby that's a keystone to your relationship.

3 Fun Facts About the Swinging Lifestyle

1. You don't have to be in a relationship, but it helps! Some sex clubs are quite strict with attendance, where it's couples only most of the time. Some nights, though, single women and single men are allowed to attend as well, although the club typically limits the amount of men who can gain admittance. There's usually no limit to the amount of single women allowed in, but that's because not many attend these clubs by themselves. In fact, a single woman at a sex club is affectionally known as a 'unicorn', because they're so rare to see.

2. Most Sex Clubs are really Sex Night Clubs! Most people assume that as soon as you walk into a sex club, everyone takes off their clothes and start to go at it, like one big orgy. This isn't true at all. Most sex clubs are run and set up a lot like night clubs. There is a dance floor, some couches and tables and chairs, a bar or two where you can get a drink or a snack, and a DJ or stage for a band. This is where members get to know one another before heading to the second part of the club, where things can a lot more sexier.

3. Bathhouses are Sex Clubs, too! While mostly catering to the swinging lifestyle in the gay community, bathhouses exist in the same way as sex clubs, where membership is required to gain access, although that is typically paid for at the entrance. Like sex clubs, they have other amenities where members can meet each other (like hot tubs and sauna rooms, hence the name 'bathhouse'), and then a separate area where a lot more intimate moments can be had.

A Little Bit About Mississauga

Mississauga is a big suburban city right beside Toronto, the largest city in Canada. Grouped together from several smaller towns in the 1960s, it attracted a huge middle class and multicultural demographic, and quickly grew and grew to become the sixth largest city in the entire country. This huge population boom certainly played a part in why sex clubs have become much more popular over the years. Another factor is that the Toronto International Airport is within Mississauga borders, which means many tourists and travellers who are looking for a fun night can find what they're looking for in this fun, modern city.

How to Stay Safe at a Sex Club

Easily some of the most important things to remember when visiting a sex club is consent and respect. At no time should anyone be pressured into doing something they do not want to do. To ensure this, it is not only expected that members look out for each other to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves, but there are always staff members who work at the club whose job it is to confront and possibly eject any guests who break these rules.

Related to this is the privacy that is expected at most sex clubs, because even though it has become more accepted, many people still prefer to keep this a discreet part of their lives, for professional and personal reasons. This means that taking photos - even with cells phones - are strongly discouraged, and members are frowned from discussing whatever sorts of activities went on at the club while they were there.

The Online World of Swinging

Like mentioned above, the internet has certainly changed how swingers can now meet each other, and how sex clubs can operate. Now if someone or a couple is interested in trying out an open or polyamorous relationship, online communities and message boards are the quickest way to find other people who feel the same way. In fact, some sex clubs have an online member community, which makes it easy to meet online, and then schedule a face to face meeting at the club. You've already got the mingling out of the way, and if you hit it off in person, you're even closer to taking it further!

The internet also makes it easy to find different sex clubs around the world (like here on EasySex.com!), so whether your travelling for work or on vacation with your partner, you'll always have a chance to indulge in your fantasy.

Get Started With Sex Club Reviews

You've seen the list of Sex Club reviews and there's definitely a spot close to your city or town on our list. Just pick a Sex Club review and start reading so that you can see exactly what we mean! On Easysex.com we've got it all. In-depth and informative Sex Club reviews, plus a community of people who love sex. There are also a bunch of other features that make hooking up in person very easy and fun. Check out the full list of Sex Club reviews HERE.