What is a Sex Club?

Okay, to start off, a sex club is indeed a club where people have sex, but it is certainly a bit more detailed than that. It's not like a brothel, where you pay to haves sex with someone who works there as a prostitute or escort. Instead, all members pay a fee - either one that is paid monthly or yearly, or at the entrance each time you attend - and the members only have sex with each other at the events. The clubs typically have a dance floor or staging area, but there is also separate section with couches, beds, and private rooms where the actual sex occurs.

While usually open to all adults, it is typically couples who join and attend a sex club event together, and they will 'swap out' with other couples there, or perhaps engage in sex acts that involve all of them. In this way, sex clubs are a cornerstone in the the swinger lifestyle. It also should be acknowledged that 'sex club' is the main term for a lot of membership-only adult clubs, which can include bathhouses.

Who goes to Sex clubs?

A lot of people! Maybe even people at your workplace who'd never guess would do that! Sex Clubs are usually associated with the swinging lifestyle - that is, a couple who enjoys having sex with other people, usually another couple - since the first establishments began to open in the 1970s. As the nature of relationships began to change as the decades went on, sex clubs became popular with the polyamorous. According to many sex clubs, the average swinging couple is middle class and in their late-thirties or early forties, and can come from all walks of life, although typically a comfort with sexual openness is a bit of a given, considering what the activity is.

How did Swinging Get Popular?

While having affairs - even quietly permitted ones - is as old as marriage itself, certainly the sexual revolutions of the 1960s and hippie communes was a huge leap forward in change what the very rigid and traditional ideas of what relationships and marriage was. Growing trends were 'wife swapping' and 'key parties' (where couples got to a house and the men throw their car keys in a bowl, and then the women take the keys out randomly, and go home with whoever's keys they are).

Since that time, the internet has made it easy to connect with people who have similar tastes and fantasies no matter where they are, and that has helped bring swinging and sex clubs into mainstream erotic culture.

What Do You Need To Get Into Swinging and Sex Clubs?

First and foremost, you should you certainly be comfortable with having sex with strangers you may have only just met minutes earlier. While open relationships come in all shapes and sizes, some of them involve a couple only having sex with some people they might already be friends with. Swinging and sex clubs are much, much more open. This means that a very adventurous mind and someone very enthusiastic about expressing their sexuality is pretty important for having fun in the swinging and sex club lifestyle. It is almost essential to find a partner who feels the same way, as this can quickly become a hobby that's a main part of your relationship.

3 Fun Facts About the Swinging Lifestyle

1. You don't have to be in a relationship, but it helps! Some sex clubs are designed mainly with couples in mind, and you have to attend events together. Some nights, though, single women and single men are allowed to join in as well, although the club typically cap the amount of men who can come in. There's typically no limit to the amount of single women who can enter, but that's because not many attend these clubs by themselves. In fact, a single woman at a sex club is sometimes known as a 'unicorn' in swinging terminology, because they're so rare.

2. Most Sex Clubs are really Sex Night Clubs! A lot of people assume that as soon as you walk into a sex club, it's really just one giant orgy on a big bed. This isn't true at all. Most sex clubs are run and set up a lot like night clubs. There is a dance floor, some couches and tables and chairs, a bar or two where you can get a drink or a snack, and a DJ or stage for a band. This is the spot where members and dance and mingle a bit before heading to the second part of the club, where things can a lot more sexier.

3. Bathhouses are Sex Clubs, too! While mostly catering to the swingers in the gay community, bathhouses are similar to sex clubs, in the sense that membership is required to gain access, although that is typically paid at the entrance. Similar sex clubs, they have other amenities where members can meet each other (like whirlpools and sauna rooms, hence the name 'bathhouse'), and then a separate area where a lot more intimate moments occur.

A Little Bit About Calgary

Calgary is one of the most exciting and vibrant cities in Canada, and is the largest in all of Alberta.It is home to the world famous Calgary Stampede and only a short drive from the popular and scenic rocky mountain ski towns of Banff and Lake Louise. It has rapidly become not only a top tourist destination, but also a important business one, as it has the second highest amount of corporate head offices in Canada, and the most millionaires per capita. It shouldn't be any surprise then, that with this comes a very eager mix of locals and tourists who really enjoy to take some snowy and sexy walks on the wild side.

How to Stay Safe at a Sex Club

One of the most important things to remember when visiting a sex club is consent and respect. No one should ever be pressured into doing something they do not want to do, or makes them uncomfortable. To ensure this, it is not only expected that members look out for each other to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves, but there are always club workers who whose job it is to confront and possibly eject any members who cannot follow these rules.

Privacy is another important part of the sex club experience. Even though it has become more accepted, many people still prefer to keep 'swinging' a discreet part of their lives, for professional and personal reasons. Consequently, this means that taking photos - even with cells phones - is not permitted, and it is expected that members do not discuss whatever sorts of activities went on at the club while they were there.

The Online World of Swinging

As already stated, the internet has certainly changed how swingers can meet each other, and how sex clubs can attract new members. If someone or a couple wants to expand their sexual horizons together, online communities and message boards are a great way to engage in the community and learn about it. Some sex clubs know this, and have an online member community, where members can meet each other via cyberspace before face-to-face. Since you've already got the icebreaking part out of the way, you're even closer to taking the next, sexy step!

The internet also makes it easy to find different sex clubs around the world (like here on EasySex.com!), so you can have a great, sexy time in any city across the globe, no matter if you were travelling for business or pleasure (now it can be pleasure twice!).

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