What is a Swingers Club?

If you are not a swinger, it does not mean that you cannot visit a swingers club to satisfy your curiosity, but most swingers club accommodate people who are most interested in the swingers lifestyle and have assumed such a lifestyle as something they are comfortable with. So, it is safe to say that you can either be a visitor or a member, but you cannot be a visitor for long. You have to eventually become a member. If you are a visitor, the goal is to get to tour the facility first before you join as a member. You will be shown the entire facility including the private rooms, lounge areas, social area, bar area and dance area, if there is a dance floor. In many cases, if you are a first time member, you get to attend the "Meet and Greet" session to become more familiar and to meet other new members. In that case, the club may offer refreshments including mixers and finger food. A swingers club has members from various demographics, age, gender, marital status, profession, sexual preferences and background. Usually the demographics make up people that live in the community or nearby. Many people in the swinging lifestyle tend to be middle age, affluent and high earners. Forget the room that they are old men and women who are tired of their life and want something to do because that is not the case in most instances. There are swingers clubs that have public spaces where people have sex, private rooms where the same thing occurs, themed rooms for sex and spaces for couples only. Some sex clubs or swingers clubs have areas where BDSM activities take place such as a dungeon or other private room. In some sex clubs, there are sex toys and various types of equipment provided, but it depends on the theme of such a room. For example, you could go to a sex club or swingers club and find a room that looks like a doctor's office with an examination table. In this case, members use their imagination and creativity to enjoy sex.

What Are The Differences?

Not all sex clubs or swingers club have the same amenities, equipment or resources. Some will carry special furniture, equipment and toys. It is not abnormal to see a spanking bench, fucking machines and sex slings in a club that allows BDSM activities. All sex clubs provide a controlled and safe space for people to have sexual encounters; whether with someone new or with their partner. Public sex in front of other members is optional. Because sex clubs could fall in any category such as strip clubs, swingers clubs and bathhouses, the amenities and rules might be different. Swingers clubs and bathhouses mostly require membership while strip clubs don't. Bathhouses may have steam rooms, saunas, and Jacuzzis while strip clubs and swingers clubs might not. In the case of strip clubs, if it is a 'gentlemen's club,' membership would be required, but other than that, it is free to visit one.

Is It Gender Specific?

Swingers clubs and strip clubs in Canada are not usually gender specific; only in the case of gentlemen's clubs. Most swingers clubs have a membership where couples outnumber single females and males. Most swingers clubs do not accommodate gays, but bathhouses do and some strip clubs do. The single women that are members of swingers clubs are called 'unicorns.' Most of them become members to indulge in threesomes with couples. In some cases, the unicorn is there to look for other women in a bisexual or lesbian situation. There are other members who are interested in anonymity so they can have sex with whomever they want without any judgment being passed. You will find most men going to strip clubs, but couples do go together. At bathhouses, you won't find as many females, but one or two may drop in, especially if it is a bisexual. But, most sex clubs do not specify when it comes to gender, but if it is a bathhouse and you are a female, going there wouldn't be highly suggested. If you are a gay couple, then you are welcomed with open arms.

The Questions to Consider

There are certain questions to consider when it comes to deciding what to do when you go to a sex club. Of course, it is optional to participate in certain sexual activities, but it will depend on your sexual preference or what you want to get involved in. Before you even go to the sex club, here are a few questions you should consider:

* How long will I stay at the club?

* Will I consume any alcohol?

* How much alcohol drinks will I consume?

* Will I participate in some form of dancing?

* What kind of attire will I consider and do I have plans to get naked?

* What steps will I take if I feel too uncomfortable?

* What kind of support will I expect from my partner?

* How will I react if someone approaches me or touches me without consent?

* What areas will I visit? Will I go into a private room, play room and lounge or will I just sit at the bar?

* What is it that is so exciting about going to a sex club?

* What am I looking to accomplish?

* What is the best case scenario to expect on my first visit?

* Do I have any fears or concerns? If so, what are they?

* What is the worst case scenario for me to leave the club?

Before you go to a sex club, it is best to discuss the concerns and boundaries with your partner in advance so that you will feel at ease and not feel pressured to make an immediate decision, if you are confronted with a certain situation. Think carefully about these questions and the answers so you don't allow yourself any openings for vulnerability.

Debunking the Myth

There are several myths associated with Canadian sex clubs and other sex clubs around the world for that matter. For one, you cannot just present yourself at a swinger's club event, put on a robe and do what you want. It just does not work like that. You cannot present yourself either at the bar and expect to be grabbed and groped by another member or your partner for sex. Sex clubs have rules and ways that you should behave. You should behave with manners, be classy, charming, courteous and conversational. No one will sleep with a member who acts slutty, noisy and rude. In fact, couples who are into the swinging lifestyle don't just go expecting that sex will take place right way. They actually have a conversation with other couples to find out more about them, getting to know them some more before being involved in any type of recreational sex. And don't believe the myth that men who are into the swinging lifestyle drag their wives or partners along with them. In fact, sex parties and swingers club is the world that women love and most of them initiate the conversation with their partners instead of the other way around. In fact, the woman is the one that gives the OK when it comes to deciding about going into the swinging lifestyle. And it does not matter if she lives in Canada, the United Kingdom or the United States or any other place around the world. The same is true across the board. The swingers club is an environment where women enjoy the attention that they get, feeling sexually liberated and positive in their experiences. It is the man who may feel intimidated and unsure. He is the one that has to be convinced even more than the woman. At swinger's events, you may see women enjoying sex with each other. This is one of the sexually displays that you would see more out in the open than a man and a woman having sex. That is done more in private. However, some people are not shy about experimenting in public. At some swingers club, you may see people who are curious enough to indulge, but if they are male bisexual, the sexual encounter will take place behind closed doors.

What Are Your Rules?

People who participate in swinging will usually do wife swapping. You have to be confident to do this, though and you have to set some boundaries with your partner as well. That means you are going to have your own rules to abide by. In some cases, instead of swapping partners, the pairs will have group sex. However, there still has to be rules involved such as no kissing or only kissing on the lips or no fondling or only fondling and no sex. You both have to decide whether this is a soft swap or full swap. Soft swap means that none of you will go all the way, but you will flirt or participate in some kind of foreplay. The best thing to do to decide whether you are going to allow second base or third base is to determine this beforehand. To participate in swinging means that it has to be a shared involvement where both participants agree to experience another person sexually. Not all swingers are fine with open relationships and that is what some people assume. So, it is important to establish the rules prior to the sexual encounter.

What Are Some Of The Amenities You Will Enjoy?

There are some specific amenities that you will find in most sex clubs, but yet, there are some that you will only find in a few.

Changing Rooms: For example, the changing room is one of the amenities that you would find in all sex clubs. This is where you get to undress and secure your valuables in a locker. In a bathhouse, the changing room is where you would find supplies of lubes and condoms.

Shower Area: The shower area is also universal to most sex clubs. This is where you take your shower, possibly after having intercourse, after swimming in the pool or being in the Jacuzzi. In a bathhouse, the sauna is usually where you would see several open showers to wash off.

Steam Room: In the steam room is where you relax and get rid of those toxins. You will find this mostly in a gay sauna or bathhouse.

Lounge Area: Most sex clubs have a lounge area where members go to relax and maybe socialize with other members. Some lounge areas are outfitted with a bar where you can sit and have a drink. Others might have a dance floor and DJ for live shows and other forms of entertainment. No sexual activity is allowed in the lounge area of any sex clubs.

Play Room or Private Room: This is where people go to engage in sexual encounters or activities. This is a private space that is in most sex clubs. Most times, this room has a mattress or a bench. It all depends on the particular sex club. In most cases, there is an additional charge to use a private room or play room.

How To Proceed

Be aware that not because you walk into a Canadian sex cub, it means that you are obligated to indulge in any form of sexual activity. It is a choice and is optional. No one will force you into doing something that you don't want to do. In fact, if you are a first timer, you can watch the happenings instead of participating until you feel much more comfortable. For some people, going to a sex club is a big deal because it helps them to let their hair down and participate in something that they enjoy. Most of these people have busy lives and not much time for fun. The appeal alone can be enough to get you back there again so you too can enjoy it the same way as others do. If you want to learn more about some of Canada's best sex clubs, check out our guide at Easysex.com.

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